well im a guy actually and im on my friends account...but anywho i had this girl for just about 3 months and i broke up with her because i realized that she was only using me for money...well i think but im pretty sure she was....and now it has been a month that we are not together and i am missing her real bad =S i do not even know why but she made me feel different and i really liked her. and we talk every now and then which makes me miss her more and i really don't know what to do about it. she says she likes me still and wants to get back together because she doesnt know what she did wrong because i did not tell her that i thought she was just using me i told her that i dont want to be in a relationship instead. what am i suppose to do?
2006-08-26 13:02:48 · 8 answers · asked by nasheila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if u still like her then go back with her... but i think u should tell her how u felt. that could ruin it or help it... depending on how u say it and how she takes it.
or u could think this is just the 'after-feelings' of breaking up and see if they go away... i think relationships arent microwavable. u cant go out with someone break up and then 're-heat' it and start over. if it didnt work and u broke up just tell urself u had ur reasons... dont forget them.
2006-08-26 13:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um well I think U should try taken her out to like a park or just go hangout at friends houses, do things that dont require money all the time, and maybe take her out once a week or once every few weeks, and if she doesnt wanna go with u when ur not spending money then that will tell u her if shes using u or not, and if she is then screw her, cuz in general she should want to spend time with u for free if she really liked u!
2006-08-26 13:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by bettyboop344 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, ever tell her the real reason you broke up with her. Tell her you got scared by how close you felt to her - that is a good line. Tell her you are ready to handle the situation now, and you really want to get back together.
2006-08-26 13:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you'd ask her out..but that the money situation is a little tight right now. May be she'd offer to pay her half for a show or something. If not, I'd say your first instinct was right and to move on and meet someone new.
2006-08-26 13:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on you goose your first gut feeling is the best, you arnt missing this person you are missing the closness, belive it or not there are better women out there
2006-08-26 13:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you broke and see what she do.
2006-08-26 13:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your initial instincts...........she's using you and she not good for you.
2006-08-27 00:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will never understand girls..
2006-08-26 13:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by pharoh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋