how do i know if my boyfriend really likes/loves me or is just using me.we've been 2gether for about 1year and 5months
2006-08-26 12:08:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when you get the answer to that question please let me know as well...I was just thinking the same thing girl as I read your question....How do you know? It's really hard to figure it out trust me I have been trying to figure it out for 3 years now! ... we must be doing something right cuz we still together...but it's the underlying question that is so bothersome....
I think it's because we put ourselves down and don't feel worthy enough of our man's touch that we are thinking we are just being used....Does your man make you meals just because he can ?
Does your man cuddle with you while watching a movie or just nibble on your ear before giving you the sweetest kiss?
Does your man make you feel really bad about yourself and then make a smooth come back to make you feel really good ..so good you almost forget what he had just previously said?
Mine does all of this and more...but I still question it....and I know I shouldn't and I have been geting alot better at pushing those nasty thoughts away day by day by just taking a step back and realizing everything that he does for me and everything that we do together.
Men are very mysterious at times...don't doubt him and stop abusing yourself over those nasty underlying questions...go with the flow and every once in awhile take a step back and do some remberance...it truely helps.
2006-08-26 12:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda~Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he treat you like a queen and respect you ? Does he go out of his way to make life easier for you ? When you go out do you feel special , like you on top of the world ?. If you not experiencing any of this...then I'm sorry ,no love there. If all of this is happening that hold on to him and make the relationship grow.
2006-08-26 19:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try asking him for a start. Are you sure of your own feelings right now? Mistrust of your partner is often the result of doubts deep down inside yourself.
2006-08-26 19:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by U.K.Export 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person that can answer that is him. Talk to him cause if you don't trust him somethings going wrong in your relationship.
2006-08-26 19:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU REALLY DON'T KNOW UNLESS YOU ASK HIM, THEN HE MAY TELL A LIE. SO I WILL TELL YOU TO PRAY AND ASK THE LORD TO SHOW YOU WHERE YOU NEED TO BE IT WORKS EVERY TIME TRY IT AND SEE.
2006-08-26 19:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋