2006-08-26 11:59:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
If he has also fallen in love with you then it's time for you both to get attorneys and get yourselves free.
2006-08-26 12:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by starrynight1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, what now? Forget about it. You are married, why would you put yourself in a position to become that close to another man, especially a married one?
What is there to gain? If either of you would leave your current spouse to be with the other person, then you cannot be trusted (why wouldn't you do the same to the person you're leaving to be with?)
If your marriage is not good, then fix it or get out of it...but don't let some other guy you've become infatuated with have anything to do with that decision.
Treat people as you'd like to be treated. How would you feel if you learned your husband was in the position you are in now?
2006-08-26 19:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a commitment to your husband and you didn't say if this married man loved you back. You need to walk away from this and remember why you married your husband, give him some of the attention you're giving this man and maybe you will find that you still love him. To many people throw in the towel on marriage now days. It really is worth fighting for. Have a nice day and good luck.
2006-08-26 19:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by Blessed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's up yo you. You will have to ask yourself the question, will I have an affair and shut up or do I want to leave my husband.
You didn't say anything about children, therefore I assume you don't have any. As I said you alone can make up your mind, just consider this first, it is really love or infatuation, the difference is hard to discern, sit yourself down and write the pros and cons of your marriage. How does the other man feel about you? Check out what you would have to give up and what you would gain.
Girl, I feel for you. Just remember the grass is always greener on the other side.
2006-08-26 19:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why are you married? If you were really in love, no one else matters. You should consider why you married the person you are with now before you go on. Once you find why you married this person, if you feel the love has died......... get a divorce! whats the point of staying married to somebody you do not love? Same to who you are in love with.
2006-08-26 19:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by bonycask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope the married man is your husband. I'm going to go with its not so I guess you have yourself a real mess. Hopefully you aren't tricking your own husband into thinking you still love him. If you two think your right for each other then go away together other wise please understand how you guys can destroy the other two that have everything to lose right now. Be a couple or say goodbye please good luck :)
2006-08-26 19:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by hollie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your getting bord with your husband, you guys should renew your love for eachother, talk to him and be honest. you gotta continue to repeatedly fall in love over and over again. Be honest about what your feelings are about what the relationships needs or is missing etc, all that, but forget about this guy who your love, he's married and so are you, reality girl
2006-08-26 19:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 marriages breaking. Is there 1 in the making?
2006-08-26 19:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by HMG M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 2 options... you dump the married man and work on your marriage ... or you both get divorced...ruin both of your families.. and run off togther.... until one of you finds another married partner
2006-08-26 19:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bury that feeling as deep as you can... it's going to hurt but it's going to hurt a lot more people if you go through with this.
2006-08-26 19:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by Loving Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋