Im 14, and i have started getting these sexual feelings. I really dont like them, they make me feel dirty and uncomfortable. I just want to get rid of them. Help? I reall wish people would stop telling that i cant, and i have to just deal with them, surely there is a way. There has to be!
2006-08-26 11:34:54 · 11 answers · asked by cluelessclumsyblonde 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
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2006-08-26 13:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by barbara L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural. Happens to the best of us! Those feeling aren't dirty and there's no real need to get rid of them. Just don't let them take you over. Yeah - their weird at first and nobody really knows what to do about them. It'll come with time. If it's something that's really bothering you, talk it over with someone you trust (parent, teacher, sibling, friend, etc). I'm sure your friends are having the same thoughts and feelings too so maybe just talking with them will make you a little more comfortable. Of course, be careful which friends you talk to so your conversation doesn't end up all over school.
2006-08-26 12:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by shafreshia01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called puberty. While you're still so young, don't start experimenting except by yourself, it's all too easy to get pregnant. Don't believe the old wives' tales:- You CAN get pregnant
the first time you do "it"
if you do "it" standing up
etc.
Ask your mum/dad/doctor/local priest/anyone you trust, for help, but most importantly of all, DON'T start thinking sexual feelings are dirty. They are the most natural thing in the world, as you will realise when you eventually meet your right partner.
2006-08-26 11:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by millowner87 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
oh there is im in the same situation as u. im 14 too. the way i do it, is i dont really think about it at all, and i focus my attention on something that completely turns me off. like just looking at a wall. the news. reading a book. something that takes up all of my mind and attention. it works.
2006-08-26 11:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it's hard. But do stay focused on other activities. Homework, cooking, friends, exercising, reading, what ever activities you like to do. Plenty of time for that later when you meet the right man. It's normal.
2006-08-26 11:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by flower 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With time you get used to it. I agree it is very weird and can be uncomfortable when it's new but you will feel this way for the rest of your LIFE!!! it just won't be as intense when you get older.
2006-08-26 11:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by liljomo1234 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you cant get rid of sexual frustration forever but if you masterbate then it will go away for a little while and wont embarass you while you are around friends. perfectly normal :)
2006-08-26 12:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, watch all the disney movies you can, listen to disney music. that will keep sexual feelings away from you
2006-08-26 11:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by natalia k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try some hardcore aerobic exercise - never fails!
2006-08-26 11:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, its hormones!
2006-08-26 11:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by mommy_2_little_man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋