We both flirt big time, but he has never mad a sexual advance at me, that's why I think he is waiting for me to make a move. I get really nervous around him. What is a good way to make a move, that is not cheesy, or trashy? Should I just kiss him, or what?
2006-08-26 11:19:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you guys are just hangin out..just lean in and kiss him..he's prob. just as nervous..OR if your afriad..and dont want to make the 1st move..just ask him about it..ask if what he thinks of your friendship..and then ask him if he wants more from it..and make sure he knows your intentions..otherwise he could feel backed into a corner..and not tell you..he has feelings for you. But i personally..would just suprise him..and lay one on..or wait until..there was a "moment"..
2006-08-26 11:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, what are you waiting for,, flirts happen only when both feel comf in each intim cirlcle.. you feel good and his body signs show smth worm - so be confident.. why dont you invite for cofee or create a longer conversation in a place where he could just explore and start licking you all over.. NEVER ASK FOR a kiss... just give him a long look in eyes while talking -- he will not take it... good luck
2006-08-26 18:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Nuts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to join you for lunch, or coffee. Nothing too serious in that request.
Then you can sit down and talk, and you may suggest taking in a movie.
Just little steps, but it will get you off the pad.
If you really want to kiss him, one on the cheek after the lunch or coffee, would break the ice. Then on the lips after the movie, if you still enjoy his company.
2006-08-26 18:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had to do that with my bf. He was a total computer nerd, made feeble attempts at flirting but I finally made the first move. He says now THAT was his plan all along. Go ahead, make a move!
2006-08-26 18:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!!!
Let him know (without saying it, of coarse) that you could kiss him if you wanted too, but you're too cool of a person to be expected to make the first move. And make a lot of "unintentional" body contact. It drives guys crazy. And use spell check. It drives guys crazy, too.
2006-08-26 18:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rabbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the move, this is 2006
2006-08-26 18:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make a move, then you'll know. Touch his arm or leg.. See what reaction you get from him. If he seems happy, keep your hands on him ;)
2006-08-26 18:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by eufrosyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is 21st century,wake up girl,let him know you feelings kiss him and start from there
2006-08-26 18:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by la_dutchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out on a date then take it from there
2006-08-26 18:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he'd like to hang out or something
or if your a risk taker...just kiss him. what's the worst that can happen?
2006-08-26 18:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋