I had sex with my best friends ex girlfriend and I don't want to tell him even though he said he wouldn't care! i'm guessing that means he would care! i was intoxicated and she wasn't, we started kissing then the whole hands in the pants and out of no where we're having sex... **** just happened then after i felt like I shouldn't have done that.... what do y'all think?
Some more info is that my friend and his ex dated for about a year and a half... on and off!
2006-08-26 10:57:56 · 30 answers · asked by MoonWalka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dude this could be a "Grudge" in the making...............but if your boy say he don't care than thats something else. Trust??? umm you go figure that out.
2006-08-26 11:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! Well, what's done is done, can't undo that, but I would say that was some pretty bad judgement on your part. Yes I know, your judgement was impaired! I don't know, but I've been in situations myself and it never led to that because even though my judgement was "impaired", it was still there. On the other hand, she was also involved so it's not all your fault either. Now, my question is, do you think he's not going to find out? Would you rather him find out from you or from his ex or someone else? The truth always comes out. Now since you're asking the question, it seems like your conscious it's out to get you. Will you really rest in peace unless you tell him? I'll let you figure it out...
2006-08-26 11:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by tgem30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be mean, but answering the question as if I was your best friend...If I was involved with a guy and he now is my ex and you were supposed to be my best friend I'd break your neck and happily go to jail. Why would you want sloppy seconds? That to me would say you have no respect or self love for YOU! What kind of friend would you be? Remember Karma? What goes around comes around girl...DON'T DO IT! And if u did already I'd look forward to some problems when she finds out!
2006-08-26 11:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by I'M BOSSY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always thought there was just a unspoken rule that you don't date or do anything with your best friends ex...I think even though he said he didn't care he'd probably hurt that you were with her...and this is a sick thought but you know the saying once you have sex with someone, you've just had sex with everyone they have had sex with...kinda a sick thought if you ask me
2006-08-26 11:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you feel bad? Well, if you need something about which to feel badly, go ahead. Guess I'd feel pretty badly about being drunk when it happened and so you might want to feel badly about that too. Sorry to make light of the situation but you might try accepting what a person says to you at face value.
2006-08-26 11:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u really actually liked her and ur friend gave u permission to date her i'd say thats perfectly fine. But when u just fool around with her behind ur friend's back...thats not nice....but u better tell him before he finds out on his only...the longer u hold off the more problems it will create
2006-08-26 11:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by .nicole. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude the best you can do is tell them cause your only hurting the both of you.... even though you think your saving him your not... nobody like a liar... the reason why i answered your question was because.. i did the same thing with my ex-boyfriends brother... not the best idea but i told him.... he was upset for a while but now were like inseaperable friends.... so yeah... good luck dude
2006-08-26 11:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by AKCORONA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well......I don't think you should feel bad about the fact that it was your bestfriends ex because it is your bestfriends (ex). I would not share this info with your bestfriend because you don't want it to cause any sort of harsh feelings. You don't have to tell "everything" to your closest friends.
2006-08-26 11:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by delorisjp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this was a one time deal with the ex then I wouldn't worry about it. If you're starting something up with her then definitely tell him.
2006-08-26 11:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Redina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he said he didnt care . and its his EX.. than u already did the right thing by asking if he would care... dont stress it hun..
its natural to feel like u did something wrong cuz his ur best friend
2006-08-26 11:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by cutiepatutie0812 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋