I've been married for 10 yrs. We've been through a lot. I am finding myself just so lonely and bored. Hubby isn't all that affectionate . I don't want to cheat. So, what do I do?
2006-08-26 10:57:18 · 13 answers · asked by delorisjp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You take a nice hot shower, put on make up and something that makes you feel good.
Then you can do what ever you want to do, call a girlfiend and go shopping or ask your spouse to go to a movie with you, maybe go dancing.
Cook a fancy dinner with candle light and then go for a drive together.
If you are looking for something for yourself, you can do the shower and dress up and go shopping or go for a drive, you can always find something that you enjoy on your own where are not cheating on your husband.
I think the hardest part of being in a relationship is remembering what you liked to do when you were on your own and most people go threw a learning process all over again to find themselves and they don't cheat on their spouses.
Have fun with it, maybe take a cooking class or something where you can meet new people. Start painting or something.
good luck
2006-08-26 11:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like you are in a rut. Try to look at the things that you did together that was fun and just set aside that as a date night. Do things together will bring you closer. Don't go off and start a separate life because you are bored from your husband. Try new things that will enhance your life together, take a class together, take a drive to no where and plan a weekend special. Let your mind wander on positive things you can do together. Good luck
2006-08-26 18:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start saving your $$ and get a Playstation 3 or any videogames will take your boredom away.. although.. I used to really like playing and have since got bored with those as well...hmm... read some books... ever read the Wheel of Time series from Robert Jordan?
2006-08-26 18:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by althor989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take a delicious warm,not too hot shower. Then talk with your friends or email them.Read a good book or watch a movie you like. Do a little exercise, like go out and walking. Go shopping,eat something you like,etc. Many things you can do.Good luck.
2006-08-26 18:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby,,, something that you really like to do...
there are many things that if you learn how -- they are actually fun...
I love working with wood, ( Im a guy ) making nice useful things out of pieces of wood just makes me feel good.... Like a reward when you are finished... You can actually sell those things if you can get yourself to part from them.... but thats just something i like.. try something new - eventually you will find something that is really fun....
2006-08-27 02:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by John Hopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its been 8yrs married, 9 yrs together - I'm there with ya sister!! We need to join a group. What shall we call it? LOL
2006-08-26 18:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since i am single i usually call and talk to some friends. i go to the movies and watch them at home.
2006-08-26 18:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by one c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend your guess is as good as mine. I think we should start a group and call it the lonely wife's club......LOL
2006-08-26 18:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kia E 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can be like me and stay lonley and bored....lol...sorry but thats the way it goes when u r a good woman and are faithful. life is such fun when you arent single....lol
2006-08-26 18:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go see a movie. It gets me away and gets my mind off of thing that are stressfull.
2006-08-26 18:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋