Ladies, I am havng some trouble. Basically I'm the kind of guy who only wants to be with one woman, in a special relationship. The problem is I am very handsome, rich, smart, and powerful. So I often get a lot of attention from other women. Even though I ignore it, the woman I am with at the time often worries that all these other women are going to steal me a way and gets very jealous. Its at the point that we can't go out because I am constantly mobbed! How can I make myself less attractive, without losing the woman I want?!?!?
2006-08-26 10:53:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
to begin with I think you need a better opinion of yourself... You really need to work on your self esteem..
I could think of a few men who might want to trade places with you!
2006-08-26 10:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by helpme1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at why you are choosing jealous insecure women to be in relationships with. You could look like Shrek and she would be jealous. Jealousy is about the person who is jealous. Unless you have given specific reason for them to be jealous.
Counseling wouldn't hurt either of you...you to change how you pick women and her to deal with her low self esteem.
2006-08-26 18:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There no need to make yourself less attractive when you're out in public do you make it known that she's you lady and you're not interested in any other ***** when you're out give her all your attention plus some show her all the affection that you can without being locked up for it and just let her know that she's the only one for you
2006-08-26 17:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow dude you re ego is sucking up all the available oxygen but to answer you re question by pointing out the obvious ya might want to tone down that massive ego because if you are bigging yourself up like that with a bunch of strangers i couldn't imagine what it is like to be you re girlfriend have you ever thought that maybe you are the one planting insecurities in these poor girls or maybe you go out of you re way to choose insecure girls to make yourself feel better regardless that is classic narcissism good luck to you i hope you can find someone as vapid as you are so you wont feel like the only good looking person on the planet
2006-08-26 18:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start acting like Tom Cruise! HA!
Seriously, it's a trust issue. She's either going to have to trust you, or things will always be the way they are. You can't change the way you are for someone, you shouldn't have to. She needs to change.
Good luck!
2006-08-26 17:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to places less crowded,for instance a picnic in the park, the secluded beach, or invite her to your place, until she gets to know the real you and your high morals. After she has a chance to know you, she won't feel so threatened.
2006-08-26 18:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can't trust u enough to know that you love her, then she's not the one for you hon. relationships are based on trust from both partners and she must trust you enough to understand what's really going on.
good luck to you both!
2006-08-26 18:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by evanescent_eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always look this girl in the eyes that you like.
dont even look twice at any other girl.
dont give any other girls the time of day.
then shell know your perfect for her
2006-08-26 17:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by JuStLoVe<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if you were going to leave she couldn't stop you...but your not so get over it..
2006-08-26 17:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by kimber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋