what should i say?

Question

my cousin was raped at the age of 9. she is now 13 and is havin more sex than my grandparents have ever had. my whole family has tried to convince her about how bad sex is at a young age but she just wont listen. she is now currently dating a 18 yr old who is just using her for sex. we have tried to take her to counsiling but she keeps running away everytime we bring it up. my aunt is out of options and is about to let my cousin just keep having sex. i have also tried to get my cousin to stop but everytime someone brings it up all she can think about is sex and prostitution.what should we do about her?

Answer 1

First, call the police and have that perv 18 year old arrested for statutory rape. Second, your aunt should be slapped for even thinking she has no options but to let her 13 year old CHILD have sex. She needs to get her into counseling and keep her there. The girl also needs to be made aware of the consequences of sex, such as pregnancy and stds... As a last resort you could also call the Department of Child Wefare. I'm sure they could help your aunt find help for this girl before something terrible happens to her.

Answer 2

im so sorry to hear that,but unforunatley being raped at 9 shes probably going to be screwed up for the rest of her life. she must be hurting so much that sex is the only way she knows how to deal with what happened to her.. im sure she feels like what happened to her was her fault,,no matter what people tell her. pray for her and hopefully when she grows older she will start making the right decisions knowing that it wasnt her fault. thats a very sad situation for your family to see someone they love hurting themselves. much love

Answer 3

call the cops since the man is an adult and she's a minor he can be arrested for rape.

Answer 4

take her to therapy

Answer 5

sound...hard...but keep yourself on your site...