Im 14, and i have started getting these sexual feelings. I really dont like them, they make me feel dirty and uncomfortable. I just want to get rid of them. Help?
2006-08-26 10:52:07 · 7 answers · asked by cluelessclumsyblonde 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You can definitely pray to God that He will help you either overcome them, or not act on these feelings. This is definitely within your control. You do not have to give in to temptation. It is normal, and you don't need to feel ashamed, but don't let society tell you that you have to masturbate to get rid of the feelings or that it is OK to have sex whenever and with whomever to feel temporary relief.
Decide for yourself what you think is appropriate behavior and stick to those feelings and values. I definitely recommend that you write your feelings down so that you can go back to those thoughts when you are feeling weak.
Just think abotu now that types of situations you would feel even worse about after the fact... those things will drive those temptations out of your mind.
2006-08-26 11:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mlle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get those feelings just think about something else. I have to tell you they will intensify as you get older. But you can control them by not acting on them. But you shouldn't feel dirty as they are a part of normal development.
2006-08-26 10:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you can't get rid of them. You shouldn't feel dirty about them. . . they're natural. You will learn how to deal with them as you get older. Good Luck.
2006-08-26 11:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright, sug. All girls have them!!! They will come and go, and you'll just have to understand that it's a way of life, and you're just going to have to be calm and not let it bother you in such a way that you feel 'dirty.' Let me tell you -- you are not dirty. That's just the body's way of developing in to something more beautiful that's ahead!!! Try and stay calm - you'll be alright! :) Come back if you have anymore problems!! My best friends, a nurse! :)
2006-08-26 11:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by I♥Brennan&Booth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's normal hunny, they won't go away. the best thing i can tell you is that you need to come to terms with them and accept that they are a part of adolesence and there is no need to feel dirty for having them.
2006-08-26 10:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by bevis yo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay on your stomach put your hands one by one on the top of the vaginal area. And hump your hands.
thats the only way
MASTERBATE. Do it at night so that you will be prepared for the next day good luck
2006-08-26 11:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They won't go away. Masturbation is the only way to make the subside temporarily. This is normal for your age.
2006-08-26 10:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋