There's this guy that likes me and like we have these things at my church that we go can go to every friday. He really likes me and the truth is, I thought I liked him too, but I really don't.He even told me he'd wait a whole year to ask me out [cuz I can't date yet] I didn't mean to lead him on for so long like I did and now I don't have the heart to tell him I don't feel the same way...did I mention he's really sensitive and shy? I feel so bad bcuz I never go on fridays and whenever he asks me why I didn't go, I always make up some stupid excuse...although most of them are the truth of why I don't go. I've tried to give hims signs ya know to hint that I don't feel the same way, but he never seems to get them. Truthfully, I just wanna be his friend, not his bf. Plz don't bash me too much, I'm only 15.
2006-08-26 10:28:19 · 11 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well you could just keep on like your friends and dont "Lead him on anymore" and tell him how you feel.
You could say your too unsure of any REAL feelings one reason because your young and just learning about Feelings and Your own personality. therefore, getting involved, dating or events of that nature are new territory for you and your just too unsure of what you want right now. and let him now this doesnt mean he should wait. Beacase even you dont know what tomorrow could bring.
Hope this helped.
2006-08-26 11:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to handle the situation is to talk to him and tell him the truth. Tell him you don't want to hurt his feelings because you think he is a really nice person but that you only see him as a friend and are not in love with him. Tell him that you've tried to make him understand by hinting but since it didn't work you think you should tell him straight out because you consider him a friend and don't want to hurt him more.
You'll be hurting him a lot more if you keep his hopes up.
2006-08-26 17:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by Auntie Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a b*tch, you're just new to relationships and you're trying to figure out the best way to handle the situation you're in. Even though he's really sensitive, it might be best to come out and tell him the truth, that way he will be able to know that if nothing else he can at least trust you to be honest with him.
2006-08-26 17:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not at your age its sometimes confusing if you like someone as a boyfriend or just a friend but you have to talk to him and tell him the truth even if it hurts him and be ready for im to be mad at you or hurt for a some time but at the end it will get better.
2006-08-26 19:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just telling the truth will work even though it sounds bitchy of you to lead him on for so long.
2006-08-26 17:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont think ur a ***** but the point is r u going to date him when u turn 16....
2006-08-26 17:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are so happy that he is such a good FRIEND to you and that you hope to be FRIENDS forever.If he says that he wants to be more than friends say "i don't want to ruin the friendship by trying that out,dude,oh by the way(change subject)"
Good luck !
2006-08-26 17:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by Myaloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not. the best thing to do right now is just let him kno that ur not interested. but nicely!!!
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2006-08-26 19:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by thechamp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not
2006-08-26 17:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lopez J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋