I'm in my twenties with epilepsy, cp, overweight and can't get a boyfriend?

Question

but my heart is gold!

Answer 1

I would think about what kind of boyfriend you would like to have and write it down. You want to write down the qualities that you need to have. Understanding would be a good starting point. Would you consider someone who shares your conditions? If so, why not? Finally once you've got a picture of what you want, you are going to have to start taking care of yourself. You say you are overweight. Are you doing everything you can to make yourself beautiful? Get a haircut that is flattering and easy for you to style regardless of the cp. Wear clothes that fit you and look great on you at the weight you are today. Get rid of any clothes that are too small. Try www.missussmartypants.com for fashion suggestions. Talk to your doctor about a simple exercise program that you can manage with your conditions. Eat healthy. DO NOT DIET!!! Eat a variety of good tasting foods, stop eating take out and frozen dinners and learn to cook. Try www.savingdinner.com for recipes and healthy yummy menu planning. If you consider dating men that share your conditions, try www.meetup.com for meet groups in your area. If you take care of yourself, people will be more inclined to want to get to know you. Good Luck. One final note: All women are beautiful.

Answer 2

Nowadays medication mostly controls epilepsy. See your doctor if not. Also ask about advice on healthy foods and exercise. You can change your lifestyle and trim down. Exercise also gives you a feeling of wellbeing and who knows you may make some friends as well. Cut down fatty/ sugary food, increase the fresh fruits/veg and drink low calorie juices and plenty of water. You need a life style change not a faddy diet.
A few months down the line you could be looking trimmer and feeling more positive and have new friends. Don't sit at home on Yahoo Answers decide to do something positive about the things you don't like in your life!!

Answer 3

but do you know someone loves the way you are. If for nothing at all, you have a heart of gold. Men like me needs a LADY like you. respectful, bold... at least that is what I feeling within inside that you are. By the way epilepsy can be cured and being overweight is not a sin. In my own opinion, your problem is not a problem and doesn't require you be rejected. You can be loved and pampered, like a woman.
don't look down on yourself. BE LOVED!
ANDY ([e-mail])

Answer 4

keep ur chin up, be yourself. if a man's worth having he'll see past what's on the outside and love u 4 being u. maybe a good way 4 u may be dating on the internet, that way u can be yourself without worrying what u look like and see if u can create and emotional connection first but be sure 2 be honest about what he can expect when u meet.
i'm sure u'll find happiness, good luck darlin.

Answer 5

If you have a heart of gold, the other things you mentioned will not matter. There are things about yourself you can change (like your weight) while others you just have to accept. Once you accept those things about yourself, others will accept you. Change your attitude and you will change your life. Good Luck.

Answer 6

Be "you" first,make "you" time!No diets,tomatoes on toast is quite sufficient for you(with tons of h.p,or daddy's brown sauce on it,mmmm!)Friendships come first,then see what happens,you are only in your 20s with everything to live for,let the boyfriend thing sort itself out-"they" come to you,keep them on a tight leash until you are ready,its you and your happiness that counts,even if you heart IS golden:-)

Answer 7

someones out there for ya.it takes time.

yeh,what is cp?
chronic pain?

Answer 8

Hi where are you from?? contact me and talk toomanysecrets79 on Yahoo messenger

Answer 9

Ah well I agree with the person that said you won't find love if you look for it...

Answer 10

You need to love yourself first