He assures me he's not cheating but I just cant get the idea out of my head. Its making both of us crazy!!
2006-08-26 09:59:45 · 10 answers · asked by princesssduhhh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The thing is that he doesnt have a typical job. He works 7 days a week every week and doesnt usually get home untill 11 or midnight. He works independantly and w/ his brother.
2006-08-26 10:09:13 · update #1
You can win this battle sweetie...let me assure you of that. First off since you are normally not a jealous person, you have the upper hand....you say he never comes home but I'm sure there are times that he does....you don't give much detail...is he staying out all night and coming home at dawn or does he leave work to go out and comes home later? Either way you got this one in the bag...the next time he goes..you go too....do something...anything(not cheat)...and let him beat you home....if he calls don't answer and act like it's not a big deal.....he won't like you going out so he will stay home.
2006-08-26 10:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean he never comes home? What kind of job keeps you out at all hours of the night? Does the job take him out of town a lot? You say he is in business with his brother? Do you know if his brother goes home at night? I don't mean to ask questions, but you didn't give enough info.
Don't mean to be nosy or anything, but how long have you been married? Are you "guys" newly married? Have you lost touch with how you actually feel about each other? Is he just working a lot to make a better life for the both of you (and kids if you have them).
Sorry, didn't mean to write a book or anything.
2006-08-26 10:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by darkhunterfan65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband never comes home then there is a problem. If he is working then thats one thing, but there isn't that much work in the world. If he is going out and hanging with friends after work, then that too is a problem, he has to remember that he is a husband and father(if you have any kids) first.
2006-08-26 10:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Truly_Complexed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. They don't lie.
My husband is self employed as well and there has rarely been a reason for him to work that late unless there is a deadline which only comes every now and then. He is normally home for dinner.
2006-08-26 10:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean he never comes home? Like he never comes home right after work??? You need to clarify, but if he is not spending much time at home, you have reason for concern.
2006-08-26 10:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Author Al 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should be jealous. maybe he is not with another woman. But he has traded you for a job, for his brother. So he has to set his priorities in order.
You feel jealous because you are not secure. It is not your fault.
2006-08-26 16:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by avll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need trust him.Being jealous can destroy the relationship.
2006-08-26 10:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, I think he's fooling around. look for scratches on his back and pecker tracks on his shorts.
2006-08-26 10:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE WHO HAS NOTHING TO HIDE, HIDES NOTHING.
WHAT IS HE DOING THAT YOU CAN'T KNOW ABOUT?
2006-08-26 10:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change the locks, what is he doing...
2006-08-26 10:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by jessandduane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋