I was just in the car with my mom and she was yelling at me and telling me that i didnt matter to her, and how she cant handle me because im too emotional, well i have so much i want to say bck to her, but right now im to hurt to do anything ive been crying since she said that. i dont know what to do, i have a friend who said if im ever threatened by my paretns that she would take me in all i need to do is call, is this threatening?? What do i do, im only 13.
2006-08-26 09:55:45 · 8 answers · asked by Me 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
This friend of mine isnt 13, she has her own kids and ive gone there before when things got this bad, and my parents know where i am when im there
2006-08-26 10:03:02 · update #1
First, tell your mom how you feel. If you do need to go them let them know. You don't want your mom calling the cops on your friend or calling it on you as a out of control teen. But seek help no matter what. Maybe you can go stay with a relative. if you do need someone to talk to find some one. I was an emotinal teen and I turned out fine. Its not your fault.
Good Luck!
2006-08-26 09:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by rainymar143 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you may not think so, but teenagers are tough to deal with when you're a parent. A lot of times us parents say things we don't mean to our kids. I'm sure your mom didn't mean it. Sometimes your mom gets to a breaking point, and then all kinds of horrible things slip out. I'm sure you've had plenty of occasions where you said things to her you didn't mean.
When I was your age, my mom and I fought like that all the time. But then by the time I was 15, we were best buddies! I think it's a normal thing that every girl your age goes through. Every mom I know has experienced the same with their daughters at your age.
Just talk to her, and have a heart-to-heart with her. It'll really help.
2006-08-26 17:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Guppy Geek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not threatening, but she may be having other issues. It sounds like you and your mom are a lot a like with having strong emotions and when that is the case things tend to get blown out of proportion. Let things settle down and then calmly try to talk to her. When things get emotional you need to take a step back and cool down before you say something that you both regret.
2006-08-26 17:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is your mom? if shes in her 40's she might be goin through menopause. she probably just had a breakdown or somethin, depending on what you did to make her yell at you. just try and tell her (calm, not yelling. its probably a good idea to wait till you're through crying, because for some reason crying seems to piss parents off more) that she hurt your feelings with what she said. try to come to a mutual understanding with eachother. DO NOT try and runaway! even if its to your friends house, don't do it. it will hurt her very very bad, and you definately dont want the cops lookin for you.
2006-08-26 17:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do to make her mad? Sometimes all kids think about is what is said to them whem parents are mad but you should concentrate on what you did that made her that angry. must of been something pretty bad for her to say that. P.S she didnt mean it she loves you more than anything in the world. Tell her how you feel when she says things like that.
2006-08-26 17:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by tohellwitu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum is probably in the same boat as you. your only 13 for god's sake parents get it wrong as well you know. Tell her how much you love her and above all talk to her when you have problems.
2006-08-26 17:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by stargazer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend that goes through the same thing so i suggest you write her a letter expressing what u r feeling and then go to your friends house but i seriously doubt your mom really means that good luck
2006-08-26 17:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off
your mother didnt mean that
trust me
mothers love their children and saying that they dont want their child is only coming out of anger
and your mother can never say that you dont matter to her
she can say it but she cant mean it
you are you but your mother is half of what you are
go to her and tell her
mom i love you
you mean everything to me
you may not feel that way
but wihtout her you wouldnt be in this world
you wouldnt have come this far
and try to talk to her on how to change the thingz she thinks are bad about you
if you dont talk nothing will get done
please just dont hurt you mother
i know what its like and you will regret leaving her one day
2006-08-26 17:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Almost.Famous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋