My friend just told me that my boyfriend wants to break up with me but I don't think I can lose him right now. He makes me happier than I've ever been and we've been together for 6 months. (My friend's not just saying this because she's jealous, she's got a boyfriend and they're crazy over eachother.) He is the greatest thing to ever happen to me. He's gone for the weekend and I won't be able to see him until Monday and I don't know if I can talk to him Sunday night when he gets back because I don't know when he'll get back. I am willing to do almost anything to keep him, I can't lose him right now, I've been having a hard time lately and if he left I don't think I could take it. No I wouldn't kill myself, but I'm just not able to go through that right now. What should I do to at least try to make him think about it a little longer or anything? I love him more than anything or anyone else in the world.
2006-08-26 09:43:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you should dump him regardless of what his intentions are. You are too dependent. You need to focus on standing on your own. You might even be pushing him away by feeling like you need him so much. Let him go and if when you are in a better place he comes back and things are good then you know you belong together. Otherwise you can not make some one want you!
2006-08-26 09:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by silentstorm025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. listen to older ,experienced persons, we have seen alot. If your boyfriend does want to break up with you then consider this: there may be a misunderstanding, which can be cleared up when you see him next. If there is no misunderstanding or he gets involved with someone else before you talk to him, then he doesn't deserve your love and you're wasting your time and energy on him. Either way, there is no use making yourself sick over this. six months may seem like a long time, but a good relationship is something that can last a lifetime and weather stronger storms than this.
2006-08-26 16:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by BNLCy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple dump him first. There's to many people out there to be stuck on just one. You will meet someone else.
2006-08-26 16:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by firefrost8k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a rope and be ready to hang yourself if he breaks up with you!
2006-08-26 16:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hire a hit man and have him done away with....he should have told YOU not your friend.
2006-08-26 16:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by louis s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel about him. Don't sound so desperate tho.
2006-08-26 16:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by So_damn_hot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you ask this already?
2006-08-26 16:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋