During sex, when I am about to reach my highest peak all of a sudden it disappear. Could you tell me what I can do to concentrate and reach orgasmic phase? Many responders as possible....
2006-08-26 09:32:27 · 17 answers · asked by Ms. Attitude 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well, I'm not a chick, but I would recommend that you draw a bath, light some candles, and put that puzzle together on your own before you expect someone else to. Until YOU know exactly what works for you, I don't think anyone else will be able to help you (epecially not on Yahoo!Answers). Most women have trouble lighting fireworks from just sex alone. Couple hints though- have your man be on top, or behind you (or anywhere where he or even you can effectively use fingers on you're most sensitive area while inside you if you know what I mean). Experiment with different things, if you feel comfortable with toys then go for it! Finally, don't worry too much about it as the brain is the most effective sexual tool you have.Good luck!
2006-08-26 09:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Does it always disappear, or only sometimes? It's normal to not always get to an orgasm.
If you're stressing out about not having an orgasm, then it's more difficult to have one. Just try to relax and enjoy the feelings, and the orgasms will come.
2006-08-26 16:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by cjsmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very common question, I've noticed, and the best general advice is the same:
You need to masturbate.
You need to masturbate so that you learn how an orgasm is going to work for you, what triggers it, and what may slow it down and prevent it.
In case your partner suddenly goes limp moments before you get your orgasm, you may wish to tell him to take a little longer, you may suggest him to masturbate you, or you may masturbate yourself....
But really, it's all about you, and about learning how you respond within your own skin.
Good luck.
2006-08-26 16:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mario E 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have your significant other give you head and aim for the clitoris, once he licks it well enough and sticks his finger up towards your gspot, sooner or later you'll reach orgasm. But in order to reach it, you also have to be in love with him and let yourself go.
Reaching orgasm is as much mental as physical
2006-08-26 16:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by zebo007 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you get anxious about it. Just relax and get into the moment. Have you man talk to you or do whatever turns you on. Even try playing with yourself duriing intercourse to help bring you over the top. Most of all is just to relax and let it happen.
2006-08-26 16:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't Concentrate. Just think of your naughtiest thought and get your partner to do it too you and you just let yourself come.Once you have let go you will a multiple girl and never look back. Good Luck
2006-08-26 16:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have your significant other give you oral sex. Many women are unable to have an orgasm any other way. Try it, it may work.
2006-08-26 20:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by lhasapal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your thinking about it to much. Try to relax and enjoy maybe that will help.
2006-08-26 16:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Myke BoDean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use a rampant rabbit vibrator or better still a man who can last more than an hour !
2006-08-26 16:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by stargazer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try a threesome if you don't want to then while your doing it relax and don't think about it. Also try another position try having the guy lick and suck your boobs and clit trust me something will work.
2006-08-26 16:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by stupidgirl5665 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋