Hey guys i am 22. In my entire life ive never had a problem getting an erection. Ive been able to mastrubate and have sex when ever i wanted. I started dating this girls and things got heavy really quick. Eventually i started loosing feelings for her. When we used to have sex there would be nights where we would have sex 10 times in that night. I started feeling guilty cause i knew that we werenet going to last much longer. And when i had sex with her i had a harder time keeping an erection. I finally broke up with her and she was devastated. I felt horible. That day i tried to mastrubate to get my mind off of things and had absolutley no blood flow to my penis. I freaked out and went to the doctor. He ran some blood tests and said i was fine and it was all psychological. Its been 2 weeks and i havent been able to get it up at all when i try to mastrubate. I do however wake up with erections in the middle of the night and in the morning. The doc said it was in my head. ADVICE PLEASE?
2006-08-26 09:30:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I would imaging that the doctor is right (probably something to do with the fact that he has trained and studied for years to be able to call himself a doctor)
Try some relaxation techniques and move on from the guilt that you are feeling about your ex. The fact that you can still have an erection when asleep further indicated that this is not a physical problem, once you get over the guilt you are feeling you will be fine.
2006-08-26 09:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet pea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You obviously have no problems getting erections when you are asleep, therefore the problem is not physical but rather psychological. You need to try and resolve things somehow, go out, meet new people. Do you think maybe you still have feelings for this girl? If not, then just take it easy. Instead of letting your mind rest, you're constantly putting great emphasis on the erection thing, maybe if you stop thinking about and stop putting pressure on yourself, then things can go back to the way they were.
2006-08-26 16:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its what he said .. u will get thru this perhaps find a new gf .. u have guilt so ur feel bad.. and its sad as if u loved her enuf then u would help be moral; support to go help her lose weight as u liked her before so there must be some kind of substance.. help her lose wight go to walks or swimming or a gym and be friends u will help her she will forgive u and u can be good friends then ur manhood should wake up cuz u done good for her. doesn't mean u will touch her but be a true friend so she wont suffer and neither will u Dr's say yea in ur head but he dint say how to get rid of it..call her say ur sorry and u would like to help her get self confidance back and this way u wont feel bad and u will be ok trust me on this.. tell her u have issues too and this way u both can help each other the results of her losing is a good thing? and for u to regain as well.. even if ur not together in that way.. be a true friend.you will get thru this.go biking with her walking or join a gym
2006-08-26 16:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your doctor was right it 's all in your head. The more you dwell on it the harder you are able to resolve the issue. (there's more pun in my answer than I intended to) If you can get erections in the middle of the night means it's not a physical problem rather a psychological one. you spook yourself. give it time you will be back to normal. unless you can't let it go.
2006-08-26 18:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I don't think posting a question a million times will help you, it'll annoy the rest of us, very quickly though!
Anyways, It is in your head, because when you're mind isn't ruling you, you seem to have no problems getting an erection. Find someone to talk to.
Want more info or to talk? Contact me.
Good Luck!
2006-08-26 16:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know...you can only do that so many times. Then you run out and you are done. You usually do not run out this early...you must have been really busy.
Well...you can just enjoy the memories.
2006-08-26 16:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch her 4 good
2006-08-26 16:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Doc's wright it's the fact that you dumped this gal that you loved which has crumbled your emotions... GIVE IT TIME...
2006-08-26 16:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have sex too much
2006-08-26 16:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by ericaofgordon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! God is punishing you for taking advantage of that girl.
2006-08-26 16:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋