In my entire life ive never had a problem getting an erection. Ive been able to mastrubate and have sex when ever i wanted. I started dating this girls and things got heavy really quick. Eventually i started loosing feelings for her. When we used to have sex there would be nights where we would have sex 10 times in that night. I started feeling guilty cause i knew that we werenet going to last much longer. And when i had sex with her i had a harder time keeping an erection. I finally broke up with her and she was devastated. I felt horible. That day i tried to mastrubate to get my mind off of things and had absolutley no blood flow to my penis. I freaked out and went to the doctor. He ran some blood tests and said i was fine and it was all psychological. Its been 2 weeks and i havent been able to get it up at all when i try to mastrubate. I do however wake up with erections in the middle of the night and in the morning. The doc said it was in my head. ADVICE PLEASE????
2006-08-26 09:24:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
dude you need to relax my boyfriend came to me with the same problem. You just feel guilty. Look have a couple drinks watch a "Movie" that gets you excited and then mastrubate. Trust me it helped chris mabey it will help you?
2006-08-26 09:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doc is right, it is in your head. When you are sleeping, you are not dragging yourself down with the thoughts of how you feel like you hurt this girl, so you are able to get an erection.
Give it time man, this will pass. Try getting out with friends, and moving on. You have to let go of the past, otherwise it will always control your future.
There is no point being in a relationship that you do not feel the same for. You did the right thing to break it off sooner than later...later would have been far worse, and could have involved many more complications.
2006-08-26 10:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by HoodRat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bit of guilt to me....but I am not a professional. I know when I feel sad, depressed, guilty, or upset it is hard to have an orgsam. I think you have feelings for this girl that you dont' realize...that, or you didn't have feelings for her at all and you feel guilty about that. Work through the feelings and you will get your erection back....I promise.
2006-08-26 09:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Aimee B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that sucks. I have sort of the same problem. I have Anxiety issues and have started taking medication that makes it difficult fore me to come. You never realize what a problem you have until it's down there! You need to relax, you are way to young. I do appreciate your empathy for her though. Don't expect to much. Everything will be alright I'm sure.
2006-08-26 09:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, have you heard of "voodoo" sounds to me like she hexed you. Some women don't like to let go. "Just a thought"! Go back to bed with her, see if you have that problem. Scary !! Pssssssst. The Dr. was right too, it's in your head.
2006-08-26 09:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and in time it will get better....also, if you are really well endowed, it is harder for you guys to get hard as it takes more blood flow.....sounds like anxiety....be cool....
2006-08-26 10:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋