In my entire life ive never had a problem getting an erection. Ive been able to mastrubate and have sex when ever i wanted. I started dating this girls and things got heavy really quick. Eventually i started loosing feelings for her. When we used to have sex there would be nights where we would have sex 10 times in that night. I started feeling guilty cause i knew that we werenet going to last much longer. And when i had sex with her i had a harder time keeping an erection. I finally broke up with her and she was devastated. I felt horible. That day i tried to mastrubate to get my mind off of things and had absolutley no blood flow to my penis. I freaked out and went to the doctor. He ran some blood tests and said i was fine and it was all psychological. Its been 2 weeks and i havent been able to get it up at all when i try to mastrubate. I do however wake up with erections in the middle of the night and in the morning. The doc said it was in my head. ADVICE PLEASE????
2006-08-26 09:10:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It does look like it's in your head... and not the penis of your head. How about you just take it easy for a while? Don't think about it too much, really. If you do get an erection at night, then all is fine. You'll just need that one girl that will turn you on!
2006-08-26 09:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are having over sexed penis syndrome. It happened to my husband just after we got married because we were at it like rabbits. It is all in your head. The reason you can get an erection in your sleep is because your dreams are more erotic then your waking ones. Just keep your hands off of it and it will come around again soon. Also, most men get going when they see a real life girl not one that they are dreaming of in their heads just to get an erection. Give it some time.
2006-08-26 09:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by Calindy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of a hard problem, isn't it... My suggestion is to go find another girlfriend. Your guilt from the last one is gonna keep dragging you into thinking depressed thoughts and stuff, which is gonna cause ED, which leads to further depression.
Guilt and stress will get ya bad dude, clear your head and start over, and dont stress so much, otherwise you will have this problem for a long time.
Calindy D is also right, if you don't play with it for awhile, it will start to miss the attention and start working for you again.
2006-08-26 09:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about it. Get involved in some kind of activity - sport, volunteering, work, whatever - and keep yourself busy. Make sure you are tired when you go to bed.
Don't think about or try to masturbate for at least three weeks. After that, only do it when you absolutely HAVE to. In six weeks time, you'll be back to normal.
2006-08-26 09:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the sooner you forget about this girl the sooner your flag will be at full staff
2006-08-26 09:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Giant Wang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch some hard core xxx and you'll be fine
2006-08-26 09:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in your "head".
2006-08-26 09:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋