i feel i hate myself and body,i hate my life..iam always single when all my friends are getting engaged and?

Question

iam fat and single,i hate meeeee

Answer 1

What a pity party. So you are fat and single and you hate your self. Let me tell
you why you are your worse enemy!!!! First of all don't you know if you donot like your self you automatically convey that to others!! That is why you are always single. For someome to pay attention you...You first have to pay attention to yourself!!!!! Now cut this mess out. Do you realize that there are many men out there who prefer full figured women?! You start loving yourself.
Comb you hair into styles that look good on you!!!! Keep yourself looking good. do your nails and your toes. Look at some of these other large women and how they take pride in themselves!!!! you cannot possibly be the largest women in the world or you would have been on T.V. buy now!!!Do you realize over half the people in the United States is overweight!!! You are not the only one!!! If your only problem is that you are fat then you are blessed. Thank God
you donot have HIV or that you are not homeless and hungry. Hold your head up.. start to take care of yourself and be thankful that you are alive. Act like you are somebody and I a sure you people will begin to take notice and thoese that have a problem with you because of your weight are too small minded to be in your life anyway!!! Come on Sweetie you can do this!!!! God never gives you more than you can handle and if he thought you were weak or your life would be worthless because of a few pounds he would not have made you that way.
you are somebody and you are worthy but its up to you to let people Know!!!
Do you know you can be a blessing in somebody elses life buy the things that you do or devistations you have overcome? God will bless you with all whatever it is that you need be it a man or whatever. LIVE!!!!!!

Answer 2

You have issues because you are not doing anything!

Instead of crying do something for your self and quit comparing yourself to others? GOD made you just as beautiful as everyone else!

Try this: Take Hip-Hop, fun way to lose weight.

Learn an instrument, in the evenings, at a music School, Flute or violin, oboe, Cello.

Take martial arts, Good exercise, trim figure, mental discipline,

Go to the Theater, plays ballet and last, Plan a trip to Europe,
instead of hotels, stay in Youth hostels, buy a Eur ail Pass for train travel, rent a bicycle at the station. You can take it on the train and use it for travel when you get off.

Worry about marriage when you are over 35.

Last, Join the Air Force, good pay, learn a good profession, travel, easier to invest and that s a win win situation!

The Mad Man

Answer 3

The road to travel will be a very difficult and painful road... but it is the one that wil lead out of the place you are in.

Sit down with pencil and paper, and write down all the tings you hate. Number these 1, 2, etc.

Then cross out the word "hate" and above it write "me". Do this until you begin to cry, keep doing it until you are on the floor sobbing in the deepest grief you have ever experienced, and stay in this deep grief as long as the tears will flow.

Acknowledge the mountains of grief that have accumulated within you, and dedicate yourself to emptying the reservoir. When done... sit down and ask yourself the "reason" you must never experience yourself as contented.... the answer to this is the key to the door you need to open to begin to reverse your habitual pattern of life.
Peace

Answer 4

The first thing that you need to do is to start loving yourself, cause if you dont love yourself then no one is going to love you. If you are not liking the way that you look, why dont you do something about it, try eating healthier and do some excercising and buy some clothes that flatter your body. Give yourself a makeover.

Answer 5

i have a pretty nice body, i am married, i am financially secure, but i hate myself and my life too. so i guess it has nothing to do with all that. it is the mind.