Ladies i have a question i want answered and i need help. When me and my fiance are alone she tends to kiss me alot and Tease me in my private area. And she likes it when i do it back. but i dont wanna go 2 far to spoil anything. and we both have agreed to w8 till we're married to have sex. Any advice, hints, or tips?
2006-08-26 08:50:46 · 11 answers · asked by lxahlers 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i mean dont get me wrong i like it but i dont know how to respond to that or what to do. we both enjoy doing that.
2006-08-26 08:51:25 · update #1
im almost 20 and yes im pretty religious but im a guy none the less
2006-08-26 09:44:44 · update #2
I really don't have a clear cut answer to your question. Age is a major factor because if you are a teenager then your hormones are in a process of changing and when you have oral/hand sex then it makes it even harder to not carry it on to the next step.Be very careful and be sure to use birth control to help prevent pregnancy and condoms to help prevent sexually transmitted diseases. No method is full proof.You are on the right path by waiting. This will give both you and your partner time to go to the doc.and get preliminary tests that you are BOTH free of disease. And also remember that by waiting till you are married, you will have that bond that most people cant share! I do believe that one should be truly in love and married before sex but it is not something known with the current population. If he is a moral, decent guy then he will respect your decision by waiting.
2006-08-26 09:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by twildman22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you probably already know you're playing with fire. You're going to have to make some choices. Either you need to stop petting to the point of arousal that you are currently engaging in, or you need to come up with another agreement, because this can't go on for long without the deed happening, and I think you have to already know that. In a nutshell, if YOU want to wait, YOU need to stop engaging in mutual teasing!
2006-08-26 15:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by maynerdswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your fiance how difficult it is for you when you get to that point of arousal, and that you would appreciate it very much if you both could abstain from this form of arousal at this point, because it is becoming increasingly difficult to keep the original agreement.
She will be more than happy to help you keep your agreement. Let her know that you are very much looking forward to the time when you can be one, and that your desire is toward/for her. She will feel very loved and respected.
2006-08-26 16:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time on outdoor activities and with friends around. I think it's wonderful you two agreed to wait but if you keep spending so much time 'petting', it won't be long before you go to far to turn around.
There are many ways you can spend quality time together and they don't all have to involve spending money.
2006-08-26 23:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't picture a guy asking this.
You have to be older than 18 you refer to Finance.
Is religion your problem?
A young adult using 'private parts"???
What are you going to "spoil" if you have set plans to marry.
Mutual masturbation and oral.
2006-08-26 16:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the teasing
2006-08-26 15:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that it's not as easy for you to "turn it off" after you've been aroused. You can either not mess around so much, or when you get to the point where you can't stop go please yourself.
2006-08-26 15:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Kayla J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask her? You have agreed on something, but ask her how far she would like to go, anyway.
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You seem a very nice guy; why we can't find more like this one? :)
2006-08-26 15:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by GN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oral sex perhaps? its amazing and you can still tease her too, hope it helps <3
2006-08-26 15:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk about how hot she is gotta go oh and compliment herin everything that is hot
2006-08-26 15:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by lauren d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋