When I met this girl a couple of months ago I knew that I liked her, but I was too nervous to do anything about it. We became friends and spend a lot of time together. I still have these very strong feelings for her and I'm pretty sure that she knows. At the same time, I know that she doesn't think of me that way. Lately things have started to become a little awkward between us. She's still nice to me and we talk a lot, but theres this underlying tension that I feel. I don't want to end our friendship because of these feelings, but for some reason I can't stop feeling them. What should I do?
2006-08-26 08:49:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh man.. I had this happen to me too so I can relate.
First of all, are you positive she doesn't feel the same way as you do? If you're for sure, then you guys should stay friends and respect her wishes. Once a girl says, "Let's just stay friends," 95% of the time she means it; the other 5% is her playing hard to get but that's a different story. Like you said, you don't want to ruin your friendship with her but yet you still like her. If I were in your shoes, I'd wait and see if anything happens. If not, then I suggest you move on and save yourself from getting more hurt. OR just be friends with benefits? I don't know, it's up to you. Do whatever feels right.
If you're not entirely sure if she has feelings or not, then try and talk to her about it, don't let her find out from someone else or whatever. It's better for her to hear it from you and hopefully, she might like you too; you just don't know it yet.
Yeah, girls are beyond weird I know.
I fell for my best friend, and things ended up badly. I hope everything goes well for you and her!
2006-08-26 08:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoul dsend her some flowers or something take her out to a fancy resturant and tell her how you feel and if she doesnt like what she is hearing then maybe you should just move on and then in a couple months or how ever long it takes maybe she will come to her sences and come back! you just never know.
2006-08-26 16:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer your question and i'm sorry bout that but i got a question for you. Why is everyone falling in love or like with their best friend. For goodness sakes. I can't cause mine is a girl but i think it's really sweet. Still though i just wanna know why?
2006-08-26 16:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a risk and tell her b4 the moment passes and it's too late. Thats the mistake i made, and i regret it so go tell that girl! Good luck!!!!
2006-08-26 16:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Loves it, right! X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never no she might feel the same about you you'll never no if you don't say something and if she's a real friend she'll let you down easy if she doesn't feel the same...
2006-08-26 16:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by roro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her
2006-08-26 15:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by oriana_yentov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋