Starting this school year, I'm going to try to be less self concious about my weight and looks. All of my friends are starting to get soooo annoyed. If I hate my weight so much, WHY THE HELL DON'T JUST LOSE IT! haha I'm 13, 5'3, and 115 pounds. Am I okay? You think it'll be hard to just not think about my weight?
Thanks
Also: http://gerardarthurway.myphotoalbum.com should I be concious about my looks?
2006-08-26 08:23:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Being a teenager IS being self-conscious. That's just part of it. You can try minimizing this by focusing on the things that really matter: your friends , your family, etc. What I find helps is that I try to focus on the opinions of people I care about, and not so much about the people I don't know or care about. Being a teenager is hard, but you'll do fine by keeping focus on what matters.
2006-08-26 08:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your weight sounds just perfect to me. (I'm a mom") I bet you are a very pretty girl. If you walk around happy,well groomed with a smile on your face I bet boys will be falling at your feet. Walk with your head up,your shoulders back & be proud of yourself. Cause if you think bad of yourself other will too. Good Luck in school this year.
2006-08-26 08:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by crrankin22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im 13 too and im 5'5 so we're around the same.. but im not 115 lbs.. im 100 lbs. and i like the way i look so just lose like 10 pounds.. im not saying u have to im just saying if u want to look a lil better maybe u should.. and the last thing- your looks... i say ur alright looking but yeaa
2006-08-26 08:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have nothing to worry about
im 14 5'5", and 130 pounds and im self-concious to....
just try to have fun and enjoy being a teenager
i ♥ ur hair by the way!
2006-08-26 10:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Alesig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 to and i weigh the same .your fine.thats the modern weight for a 13 year old if your friends are being annoyed then you should find better friends
2006-08-26 08:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very ok. you have an extreemly healthy weight. a healthy BMI (body mass index) for a 5'3" girl is between 110 and 140..i guess not thinking about your weight depends on your body image of yourself.
2006-08-26 08:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are at your ideal weight but you are only 13 so all you need to do is maintain that weight just work out occasionally you are fine!
2006-08-26 08:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_lil_princess_ri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you look great.
tell your friends that you are just more spiritual and you need the extra weight to hold you down so that you don't float away. (a sense of hunor is a good time to develop)
2006-08-26 08:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by cvy2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me this can you see your feet when you look down??? well if you can then you are not fat. You shouldnt worry about your weight that is just how you are. and if your friends are getting annoyed then maybe they arent true friends!
wisdom from katie
2006-08-26 08:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you could use something more to worry about like homework, after school activities or how your own friends are doing.
2006-08-26 08:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by powxmansal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋