2006-08-26 08:18:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your husband is still friendly with his ex? I wouldn't go unless he agreed to attend a party of someone that you used to be involved with!
2006-08-26 08:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Does your husband want to go? I think if everyone can be sociable, it is a big advantage to both sides. Especially if there are kids involved. Jealousy should play no part in this decision. If you are old enough to be married, you are old enough to be mature about what could be an awkward situation. You're the wife, she's the ex - so there shouldn't be an confusion or anger unless you were part of the divorce. In which case, I would then stay away.
2006-08-26 08:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you _have_ to go? Certainly not. But it was polite of her to invite you. And if your husband still has a cordial relationship with her, it's OK for the two of you to go.
Now, if she invited him and not you, that would be a problem. If he went without you, that would be a problem. If neither of those is the case, then whether or not you and your husband attend the party is entirely a matter of how comfortable the two of you are with it. If you get along with her all right, why not go? If you don't get along with her, but she's extending an olive branch by inviting you, why not go? If you believe that her motives are pure, and you and she have a relationship that is at least civil, what can it hurt for you to go to this party?
2006-08-26 08:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. When someone is divorced, they don't go to the birthday party of their ex and bring their current spouse! What kind of arrangement is this? Divorce means the end of the relationship, and the only contact should be for the sake of the kids (if there were any) and that should be kept at a minimum. Gee, if the ex gets remarried will your husband go to the wedding? Rhetorical.
2006-08-26 08:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Proper thought on this matter says NO you do not have to go.A proper husband would side with his current wife and not go. If there are children from this previous marriage involved and they live with you two then a neutral party should pick them up and drop them off back home with you from their mothers party.
2006-08-26 08:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha are you kidding, aren't your jealous from your second hand wife's. only if you are in good friends you can end up to do something on your husband if you were angry at him. like for example if your husband made you angry by doing something that you don't like , such as marries on you since your a jealous women, you can make a team with his ex-wife's for a party at his house and trick him about something that he don't like for tricking match the women's and go to the new bride that meets with your husband and tell her that we are the wife's of your husband then this bride get very jealous and runs away from your husband and tell him that he is a cheater . that's a love story I watch before on movie. take my advice for it and try it and tell me what will happens if that's true.
2006-08-26 08:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend. It looks like they ended up in good terms: I wouldn't invite my ex if I hated him, so, if she does in a good way, why not?
If she does to bother and any of you feel uncomfortable, don't go at all, but if you both are a happy couple, why not? If she does do it because she wants to be a nag, she could see how good you both get along.
2006-08-26 08:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by GN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to go, but if you were invited, sounds like there's no hard feelings on her part and probably shouldn't be on yours. I say you should go and have fun. You might realize you can all be friends after all, I mean don't expect to be BFFs or anything, but ( you didn't mention kids) unless it's just too weird for you, you should give it a shot.
2006-08-26 08:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by hawt2trawt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in the F--- would an ex wife invite her ex to her birthday party.
No don't go. Someone it nuts here or maybe both are crazy.
2006-08-26 08:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would let him chose. It is his ex. If kids are involved, ask the kids if they want you to attend, it could be weird for them. If all else fails, call her up and see if she really wants you there, or if she was just being nice. ( I would suggest asking in a not obvious way.)
2006-08-26 08:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by Lib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋