Okay, so here's the deal: I am female, 17 years old. I kinda like guys, i.e.- I would flirt with them, hug them, kiss them, I'd let them go down on me, etc., I'd just never want to do anything that involves their penis XD (Handjob, *******, sex, whatever...) Does this make me bi? Or lesbian? My friend and I argue about it all the time so I'm just asking... >..>
2006-08-26 08:14:02 · 6 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay, so here's the deal: I am female, 17 years old. I kinda like guys, i.e.- I would flirt with them, hug them, kiss them, I'd let them go down on me, etc., I'd just never want to do anything that involves their penis XD (Handjob, *******, sex, whatever...) Does this make me bi? Or lesbian? My friend and I argue about it all the time so I'm just asking... >..>
Also, I haven't done anything with a girl yet, other than kissing, but I would definately want to. And I HAVE had sex with a guy before, but didn't like it. Not only because it was the first time, but it just felt... wrong. Idk how to describe.
2006-08-26 08:28:01 · update #1
You are a lesbian if you are only sexually interested in women. You are bisexual if you are sexually interested in both men and women. If you are not interested in sex, you are asexual. Nothing wrong with any of it.
2006-08-26 08:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like having sex with women? That's the only test as to whether or not you're gay or bisexual.
Just because you don't want to touch a penis, most likely is because you are young and inexperienced.
Does the idea of going down on another girl, of kissing and making out with her, of fondling and suckling her breasts, does any of that sound exciting and sexy to you as the doer?
If not, then you're not bi or a lesbian.
The way to get over your fear of a man's penis is to find a cool, horny guy and play with his dick. Give him a few handjobs, learn to give head, learn to look at a penis and see it clearly. A penis can be a girl's best friend. :-)
2006-08-26 15:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by gift_of_the_dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you do the same with girls? if you did then you could be bi, if you don't then i would say that you are into guys, just not sex yet
2006-08-26 15:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by raffi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE TO ME YOUR JUST REALLY CONFUSED. YOU
NEED TO JUST TRY IT WITH A GIRL AND THAT WILL ANSWER YOUR QUESTION.
2006-08-26 15:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by vampire lover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it means that you need time to familiries youre self with with his (*thingy*)
2006-08-26 15:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your gay at all, but u do suffer from cockaphobia!!!!!
2006-08-26 15:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by madchiman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋