we want to be together but there is something in the way but he wont tell me what it is
2006-08-26 08:06:43 · 7 answers · asked by scorpio 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what should i do ?
he lives with her and they have 2 girls but we also have a 1 month old son which she knows about. i know he loves me we want to be together but something is stopping him. i just don't understand what is the hold up he has to get up every morning and go home and the only time i get upset is when he leaves
2006-08-26 08:13:22 · update #1
Sorry, but trust me, you won't win!! If he has someone else in his life, let him go! I was in the same situation for 4 yrs...he married HER this month and didn't tell me. He was with me the night before he married HER. His sister told me less than 2 hrs after the ceremony. He was actually with HER 3 yrs before I knew she existed. Let the DOG go and move on!
2006-08-26 08:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by PD GAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you shouldnt have messed with a guy with a family cause if he is doing it to her what makes you think that your speacial and things will be different for you. I had this happen to me, had a baby, left a few months later. He cheated on me with another girl and few months after he left me she was pregnant and now she has two and nothing to do with all three, and they are not together anymore. But the kids did not ask for this just try to keep them together and swallow your anger, jealousy and any other hard feelings and let the kids be siblings.
2006-08-26 15:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by heyall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him. This is just from personal experience. I used to date guys who cheated on someone with me, thinking they will never do that to me, but the truth is, that if he has gotten tired of the one he is with and is cheating, what makes you think that one day he is not going to get tired of you and cheat on you? Most of the time, and I am not going to say all the time, but most of the time, Once a cheater always a cheater.
You deserve better than that. You need a man that is with you and only you. One that loves you for who you are, and don't want anyone else. Stop letting him use you.
I know this from my past. My ex-husband was married when I got with him (I did not know this at the time) anyway, he left his wife and we were together for over 5 years, only for me to find out that he was cheating on me.
Good luck, hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-26 15:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's between you is his xxxx! You're being used, big time, if he has a g/f. Why would you want someone who has someone else, with either of you on the side. He's probably kickin it with some others you don't know about, too!
Aren't you good enough for a solo run ?
2006-08-26 15:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get some answers from this guy are move on because being the other women is not cool.
2006-08-26 15:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WILL IF HE DONT WANT 2 TELL U I THINK U SHOLUD CUT HIM LOOSE CAUSE THATS NOT WRONG RIGHT THAT SOMETHING IT STANDING IN YOS WAY.ARE U THINKING THAT IT COLUD BE A GURL / HOLLA BACK AT KALE
2006-08-26 15:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, there's nothing better than being a booty call for a "gut"
2006-08-26 15:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by smokinitup0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋