Would you change anything
2006-08-26 08:00:05 · 18 answers · asked by pebs 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only one day and it was a very bad day. I have dealt with addiction issues, 3 failed marriages and lots of life's tests but have learned from them all. This one day that I would change ended with another human being losing their live eventually. No I did not take this person's life but I was present and was an accomplice.
2006-08-26 08:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I would do anything I could to have my parents put me through college and not marry the man I did. I would also not have children. I love my daughters, but if I had it to do over again, and didn't know them at all, I would choose to not have children.
But life doesn't work like that, so even with the bad things in my life, the good things outweigh them tenfold. My daughters are the most wonderful people I know.
2006-08-26 15:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets start from the top, I would have been closer to my family, would have spent more time with my REAL friends, would not have been arrested twice for PWI to supply drugs, would not have lost my last EX (She was perfect in everyway), would not have tried to commit suicide, would have studied at school harder, and finally would not let anyone walk all over me.....That pretty much sums up how many things i would dream of changing for the BEST.... hope you all can be as open as i have just now.
2006-08-26 16:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by DynaKnowsBest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... because anything I did change, might well adversely affect someone that I love!
It's been very bad for me on a personal level... but the best was having my six children and I wouldn't want to change a moment of the time they spent, inside my arms as babies, running me ragged as young children, driving me to distraction in their teens, and cold shouldering me in adult life... unless, they get divorced and need me to mend their broken hearts... or pass on money!
I luvs em as they is... and just one second changed of my time... could seriously wipe any, or all of them, right out!
2006-08-26 15:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to live my life over, I've lived it once and once is enough. I would change nothing. This is a whole different world today--not like when I was growing up.
2006-08-26 15:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there would be a few things I would change, Like telling most of my In-laws to **** off and a few family members on my side to.
But on the flip side if it was not for them being such asses and me and family moving because of them. I would not have what I did today.. I went from a trailer to a 4bedroom house...a job that paid 17,500 a yr to 31,000 a yr...the wife went from 15,000 to 27,000 a yr kinda of funny the tried to ruin our life and just made it better...
2006-08-26 15:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose we all would like to with some things but unfortunately we can't live our lives using the lines "should've, could've, would've...."
Things happen and then we just have to get on with our lives regardless, learning through our experiences and applying what we've learnt to newer situations!
2006-08-26 15:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Blah blah blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not a thing the misses and i are both Md. been married 22 years,6 children,17 grand children,we work together everyday in the a clinic, taking care of children, who are not as fortunate as ours,Mothers on drugs,fathers no where to be found or in jail,you don't know how difficult it is ...To wean these children off,drugs because of their parents,well i don't want to go on forever my answer is NO
2006-08-26 15:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by bull 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would change a lot of things like getting a better education and a great career...But i'd still have all my Kids.....
2006-08-26 15:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't change anything about myself. However, I lost my mum and dad to horrible diseases. They both died young and I would change that so they did not have to suffer.
2006-08-26 17:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by robin_peel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋