i just wanna know, how can guy and girl have orgasm at the same time , and how many minutes i have to hold myself t for her ? 5 min ? 8 min ?
2006-08-26 07:50:22 · 8 answers · asked by sall 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
if it depends , depends on what ?
give me an example of yours or anybody esle (anything u think u can help me with) or ......
thanx
2006-08-26 08:04:30 · update #1
how should i know the girl fakes it ?
2006-08-26 10:26:34 · update #2
Dear Boy, Evidently you are either young and inexperienced or you are trying to get a cheap thrill. It's really difficult to give you a straight answer to your question. Like many people have told you, everybody is different and some women come within minutes while others need a lot more stimulation. Let me tell you this. All this talk about having simultaneous orgasms is BS. It's great to have an orgasm either alone or together. Don't worry about when the woman you are with is having her orgasm. Just give her one. I can assure you she will love you for it. And if she is faking it, that's not your problem. She's the one who is losing out by not being honest. NOT YOU.
2006-08-26 16:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sicilian Godmother 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you haven't had many partners or don't know a lot about sex. Every woman isn't going to climax in the same amount of time...and one woman probably won't climax in the same amount of time, every time...
It will vary...some women don't climax from intercourse at all...
You need to know your partner...have sex with her enough to know about how long it takes for her to get there...or if there is something you can do to speed things up if you want her there more quickly...then time your own orgasm to meet hers...
Simultaneous orgasms aren't real common because it's tough to know when she's about ready to climax and have yourself at that spot too...good luck in accomplishing this...
2006-08-26 19:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some can climax in less than a minute...some can never climax...and all in between. There is also an arousal factor.
That's why those above say "depends".
You need to communicate and/or have a "code" to climax together...and most importantly, listen to her breathing...
2006-08-26 16:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by I I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just depends on the two people involved
2006-08-26 14:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's very horny can be a few mins - but will c*m deeper and harder after a longer session. Generally speaking.
2006-08-26 18:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by calmseas10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...
2006-08-26 14:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by ms_books3736 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the individual people and how aroused they are
2006-08-26 18:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by verykinkyfemale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a hour or 2
2006-08-26 14:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by marnicduff 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋