Ok everyone let me ask you all this. Why is it that now that I have a relationship with a good black man, I have all kinds of men especially other black guys trying to get with me. They don't even know me or that I am with a guy but I have all kinds of men hitting on me and telling me that I look good and all that why is that. When back when I was in highschool I couldn't get a man to look and acknowledge me if my life depended on it?
2006-08-26 07:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by cheryl m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because you are probably having more sex now and because of that you are emitting more pheremones which attracks men. Also you probably arent trying so hard.
2006-08-26 07:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by sexyheater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens for real. Look at it this way..simply, not technical now.
You are giving off an aura...one of unassuming contentment. Officially your mind and heart are at peace and your body language reflects that. . You don't know it but they can sense these things...what is attractive but untouchable...a little mysterious and they are invisable to you You are off limits to them. They are challenged by that and it stirs them because they are male and a male on the hunt is a male on the hunt. Black men have a natural charm and not afraid to approach you because they pick up the scent ahead of the others. So things have changed for the better for you all around.
Enjoy it. I mean that sincerely...it doesn't last forever and it is rather nice.. I have also heard young men say the same thing once they become engaged and untouchable. It is what it is and what is like the old saying..."Everybody loves a lover.'" This is what they mean..
2006-08-26 14:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer is so obvious!! You feel that you are attractive because of your new man...it makes you happy and confident that you have this guy...let me tell you, your mental feelings affect those around you, they start to see you how you feel you should be seen. It's all in the power of one's mind. Your mental thoughts can become physical manifestations, you just have to believe in them enough... I heard a quote once, and I probably won't get it right, but here it goes."Once we believe in something, the universe conspires to make it happen." Basically, once we set our mind on something, you start to see things around you that start making that happen. In this particular case you project confidence and beauty because you believe it...others see you that way as well. Keep that in mind when things aren't going well also, don't let it change your mind about yourself.
2006-08-26 14:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by 1n51ght 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey I know what you mean. I got married and some one is always hitting on me, in high school i couldn't get any guys attention. when guys see a woman involved they think well she be easy to get rid of if I get some and its also a male dominating thing.(NOT ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THAT).
2006-08-26 14:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by hotmama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's always the case. Stay true and stay on course. There will be lots more guys if this doesn't work out.
2006-08-26 14:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way life is. It never rains but it pours. Ha! Enjoy them noticing that you are attractive but don't allow it to go to your head.
2006-08-26 14:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they think they can try to take you from you're man and then dump you
2006-08-26 14:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol same here and thats how it usually goes when you finally get who you want,,then they come out of the woodwork.
2006-08-26 14:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are happier and you have more confidence in yourself and it shows.
2006-08-26 14:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by country nana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋