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Question

theres this guy at my school.. and he started writing myspace comments to me. saying how.. he thinks im cute and that we should hang out sometime. so one day i went to his party. i got pretty drunk and he kinda took advantage of me. but in a way maybe i was being a tease. so the next few days at school were so akward. Then we didnt see eachother all summer until the last week before school.. i saw him and i started to kinda have a crush for him we went to the movies. and hung out. but never spoke of the night of his party. Now he wants to go out with me. should i?? what do u think

Answer 1

Not if he took advantage of you, stay away!..

Answer 2

One good way to find out about a what a guy is really like to ask about his ex girlfriend....or his mother

If he goes off on a rant about what a b**ch she is etc....stay the hell away from him.

Guys are driven by hormones more than women, but still insist a guy treat you with respect.

Never let anyone put you down, or feel like you have to engage in a behavior you know you will regret to make him happy.

A guy that really cares for you would not want you to do that.

Answer 3

I think it would be ok only on two rules!

1.)no beer
2.)no drugs

oh and no partys he puts on in his house pick a public spot for the date or the mall take a friend to shadow that has a cell phone
then you can play it by ear from there if he is a creep then you can ditch him by telling your friend and she can call in help or you and her can goto the restroom then call security to remove him.
but do not sell your options short just use the options that are arounf you to simlify the problem and solve it.

Answer 4

I think you should talk to him about it. Talk about what happened that night, and if he regrets it. It may sound awkward, but you don't want to spend your life with someone who will use you! And another thing. Play a little hard to get. He commented you on myspace; you replied. He invited you to his party; you had sex with him. Now he asks you out; you go out with him? Girl, you're worth more than that. Talk to him about that night, tell him how you feel, and see if it works out for you. Good luck.

Answer 5

why don't u ask him what happened at the party if he gives u a good and honest answer than go out with him but if he tries 2 change the subject then say no but if u really like him than 4get about the party and go out with him u can just 4 get about the party

Answer 6

well, sounds like the 'taking advantage' was at pretty consensual, if you were drunk, and he was drunk, the whole incident is kind of a wash. i think if you really harbored a sense of his being aggressive in a bad way, you wouldn't have developed the crush. try a sober normal date with a kiss being the end of it.

Answer 7

well if you like the dude then go ahead and go out with him. truth be told yall both were probably tore up at the party he might not remember that night either. you only live once if you dont like it you can always end it

Answer 8

i think of you're on the suitable song, draw close out outdoors of oovoo (i've got self belief so previous, i do no longer understand what oovoo is. whilst i became your age I talked with my boyfriend on Nexopia (and it became cool then)). there is not any might desire to hurry it once you're so youthful and that i'm chuffed you're in no hurry to circulate rapidly. basically save on doin what your doin :). If it somewhat is gonna artwork out it is going to.

Answer 9

if any guy from myspace says he wants to hang out with you that means he wants to get in your pants. which happened. dont go out with him

Answer 10

go 4 it

Answer 11

Dont get drunk again becuase to guys thats dirty luandry and that might make him think you're a skank or something [ even tho youre proably not]....And he proably thinks he will get some....so accept the dating invite...be carefull !