my girlfrind and i have been toghter about a month and she is like the biggest turn on and the things she does in the beedroom is nothing short than excition and i am having problem getting it up and keeping it up 4 any real lenth of time,and some time i have a problems getting off.is this a medical problem that i can get takeing care of by a local doctor?and if so were and witch type of doctor can i talk to,to get it take care of?
2006-08-26 06:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by ahghgfhgfhgf 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
sucks to be you!!!
go see a doc!
2006-08-26 06:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a number of reasons E.D affects men, including but no limited to anxiety, pressure to perform, psychological traumas, being in an uncomfortable environment, or other related health problems such as heart problems etc. Try having sex when you are relaxed and there is no pressure around. Even though we want the sex, a pushing partner can have negative effects, or just the fact that you think you will have sex will generate anxiety affecting you adversely. If this doesn't work, then is time to visit your primary health care physician to determine what is the cause of your problem. If its psychological therapy has proven to be successful in most of the cases and there are a wide variety of medications including cialis, levitra and Viagra that successfully treat this ailment. Depending what results you obtain your doctor will determine if you qualify for treatment. Please don't worry about this is perfectly normal and it happens, just make sure you solve it, that's all it matters!
2006-08-26 07:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a simple explanation or a extended one, I have found out though that if a man has too many things on his mind, especially on a subconcious level. our minds are so full of things that could in actuality play tricks on your body. First things first, check out all medical reasons for this and make sure there is nothing wrong physically, then go from there. It is not abnormal or uncommon for this to happen, it happens more than you would ever know, but of course no man is ever going to talk about it for all know reasons. also if you put too much pressure on urself to perform it will happen, try to maybe just make a relaxing eveing with your girlfriend w/ any planned ideas of sex, a bath together, candles and just enjoy eachothers breaths and bodies and talk without the sex as an outcome. enjoy the moment.
2006-08-26 06:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by hopelessly devoted to my man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have U tried Pelvic Floor Exercises?
They're not just 4 women.
Look on the Net 4 an explanation, it'll B far better than mine.
& I blush easily 2!
2006-08-26 06:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Do you smoke alot? Drink alot? Do you have diabetes, high blood pressure?? Are you on anti-depressants? Are you stressed out at work, or otherwise? Do you eat high-fat content foods? If the answer is no to all these, get to a doctor. If the answer is yes, get to a doctor, cuz he/she can probably help.
2006-08-26 06:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by NavyBrat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the doctor you need is called a "urologist", or a doctor of urology. But that is a specialist. One to see first is a family doctor, or general practice doc.
2006-08-26 07:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by hillbilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats embarrasing. mayb she is not getting u excited. sometimes ur mind gets fooled into thinking yea she is doing this wow but really ur "client" thinks its nothing special to get all grown up about. anywho go see a penis doctor. the guy will touch ur thing and play with it and see wats wrong. problem solved.
2006-08-26 06:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by hotmodelanti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In case she has noticed, you'll want to make sure she understands it is not at all her fault.
2006-08-26 07:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jamestheflame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's the "biggest turn on", how come you're having problem keeping it up?
2006-08-26 06:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by johnmonroe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless your way super nervous... whichh could be the reason. go see a doctor!
2006-08-26 06:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your smoking Pot regularly that will affect your sex life...
2006-08-26 07:03:34 · answer #11 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋