ok my friend asked me if i would have *** with someone and at this age i said no she said maybe and i dont cuz i dont want to thave a baby she said theres all kinds of protection but i still dont think so. i dont know about her but i wount do that . she is a ayear yonger then me.
2006-08-26 06:43:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
would you do this at the age you are in well yonge?
2006-08-26 06:44:16 · update #1
i am 16 but i think it is too soon i will wait longer. i dont care if i have to wait as long as i dont have a kid so soon.
2006-08-26 06:48:08 · update #2
it might help clear things up for everybody if you were to state your age but honestly in the end none of that really matters because if you feel you are to young to do something like that then you have made the right choice
2006-08-26 06:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you somethin...I was 15 my first time. although there is all kinds of protection you can't trust it. Things always happen. I kept doing it, and when I was 16 I ended up pregnant. Don't get me wrong, I love my daughter(she will be 6 in Sept), but I should have waited for both of our sakes. he ran off, and I'm trying to go to school, and work my *** off to support her. plus, I only make 6>25 an hour. I love her, but am not yet financially able to give her the things she wants. I don't regret her, I just regret my mistake and having her so young. ALL IT TAKES IS ONE TIME. ALL IT TAKES IS ONE TIME TO GET ADDICTED AND KEEP GOING. Wait till your older and have a man that will stick around, trust me, it's worth the wait. You give up your childhood, money,things you want, you will have to have a job, and I lost friends. Your focus will be on that child, and it's innocent, it didn't ask to be brouhgt in under those conditions. if you are willing to give up being a teenager, then go for it. But I wish I had waited. And now I tell everyone too wait-besides, it'll be more special
P.s. -Don't trust things just cause there are protections, he wore a condemn and I still got pregnant(the condem had a hole, we think-don't know) so protection doesn't always work and isn't surefire. Plus, they don't protect from STD"S
2006-08-26 13:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Alexis and Abbigails' mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are asking you are too young....don't be in such a hurry to grow up have fun right now sex only complicates things in many ways......and there are alot more things too worry about than having a baby...you never know who the other person has been with or how many just because they tell you [you're the first]
Tell your friend to slow down being a grown up is not as great as you think it is....always use protection and be care full
2006-08-26 13:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by fetter_2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You do know that to do such thing when under age can lead to loads of problems? Not only that! No one should puish you to do anything you don't want to and you shouldn't do it until you're old enough to decide that it is what you want to do, understanding all consequences as well!
You shoukdn't only worry about becoming pregnant but also STDs as they are rife and you could become infected if you do not use the right protection.
Reading through what you say i think you should talk to your mum or another adult you can trust, tell them what you told us and take their advice!
Be careful Honey! Seems to me you're way too young!
2006-08-26 13:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting to prevent pregnancy is a good point so is the age thing. But why not wait for some of the right reasons? Like because you love your future husband enough even if you've not met him yet to save yourself for him only? or because you don't want any STDS? or the first one to give yourself to your husband only and to remain pure. That to me is the most romantic and loving sexy gesture any guy or girl could make or do for eachother. Save the virginity for the ONE on your wedding night. Too many of us today do not wait and it tears us up inside. Don't put yourself throught that kind of emotional, physical, mental, or intellectual pain.
2006-08-26 13:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound too young for any thing. what u dont have an answer for means u r not ready. wait and when u r ready u will know. dont do something u will regret for the rest of ur life
2006-08-26 13:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 14 and i wouldnt. im waiting. im like u i dont want to have a kid this early in life and waiting for that special person just seems right.
2006-08-26 14:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by vpaneto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let anyone talk you into doing something you aren't comfortable doing. She may try to convince you that you are being a baby. In reality it is she who is being immature. Stick to your guns. Be smart, be proud, be safe!
2006-08-26 13:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? You sound like you are five by the way you write, so therefore, you are too young to even be concerned about whatever it is you are talking about!
2006-08-26 13:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I would not go through with it. No matter how old I am I still would not do it. Just tell that person to stop asking you cause your not going to give in....
2006-08-26 13:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by littlesiscrys15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋