He told me I was boring after he broke up with me. I told him that he should have told me that when we were going out, and I wouldn't have been boring. After I told him that he was quiet over the phone. I wasn't that upset, but I was mad about the way he broke up with me, He got one of his friends to say it in my ear, that was so stupid. We still talk over the phone sometimes. But I am scared of what is going to happened when I see him on the first day of school, i don't know what to do....Should I talk to him or ignore him.
ps he is like one of them fresh boys, the day he broke up with me he gave me a hug and he gave me a kissed, but, i couldn't kiss him back, because of what he did. It was when school was ending and I started to wear little skirts and tight shirts, and he keeped looking at me and he asked for a hug and he wouldn't let go. I still have feelings for him, but what should I do if he asked me back out again? Should I say yes and hopefully things would go better.
2006-08-26 06:25:24 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His behavior toward you demonstrates his lack of maturity. I would suggest that until you see he has matured you don't go back out with him or you risk a repeat of this situation. Talk to him if he talks to you. Be polite and respectful. He is obviously still attracted to you, but that may not mean he has feelings for you. Don't allow him to use your feelings against you- if you do, you risk being used and dropped as soon as he finds another piece of booty.
2006-08-26 06:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i'm well known for good advice in this category. okay to be honest all he wants to do is beat. Because the things he should of been doin when yall was togetha he's doin now that yall are apart. But you have to realize you have to keep the relationship spiced up with bangin conversations jokes laughs and everything. Butu don't need to be with nobody that can like you one way and not the other and then he should of been a man about the situation and broke up wit you his self. This boy right here was only for ah season. You can do bettet and can find somebody to like you for who you are and not for what you got. Take my advice about the boringness.
2006-08-26 06:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Takeyla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do better than this guy. In my opinion, he is rude and you should find a guy who likes you for who you are. If he asks you out again, say no. Even if you still have feelings for him, if he finds you "boring," that is a sign that you two truly are not compatible. It may be awkward when you first see him at school, but that will eventually wear off, and, after it does, you can find yourself a new boyfriend.
2006-08-26 07:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by mooglie8895 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the absolute bejesus out of him. He has no respect for females at all. He is trouble. Look back and learn though. Were you really nervous around him on your dates? too quiet? just think-then when a really cool guy asks you out-you'll know what it was that may have caused all this-although I think the fault may be entirely his own
2006-08-26 06:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by janda10@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. when you see him...just say "Hey" and move on. No hugs. just wave and go. It sounds like he just wants to get a feel.
If he thinks your boring...SO WHAT. The worst thing you could do is go out of your way to please HIM. Find somebody who likes you as you are. Boring or not. Most guys like NORMAL girls.
Was he MR EXCITEMENT all the time? I doubt it.
Your feelings for him will fade. Be yourself. Be happy
2006-08-26 06:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by james h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some respect for yourself and see if you can actually attract a young man instead of a baby boy. Telling you that you are boring is manipulative and abusive, unless you actually are.
2006-08-26 06:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you out again, tell him no, he wasn't any fun anyway. Any guy that dumps you like that isn't worth your time anyway. Find someone else.
2006-08-26 06:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what really makes u happy. Honestly he doesnt deserve for u to take him bak for him being so imature. But its really what u want.
2006-08-26 07:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by LADYQUEEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk.
From now on, you should pretend that he doesn't even exist.
2006-08-26 06:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kisk his *** out of your way, your coming through to meet your honey on the other side....And its not him.
2006-08-26 06:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋