ok.. a friend of mine.. fro abou t2 years.. watched my son yestreday. she OFFERED to take him the night before so i wouldnt have to bring him over at 6:30 am... i was at this training fro work all day.. at around 5 o clock, she asked me if i would take HER daughter that night.. u would think i wold say yes.. right? she helped me so i would help her... but i said no. heres the thing.. she was planning on staying home and doing absolutly nothin.. with her 9 month old daughter. well.. she is ALWAYS, always complaining to me how crappy her life is (which is due to the people she decides to be around.. they are also worthless, drug dealers, whores, etc....no oke...!!) and she is alwasy askin me how sh can change her life around... which i tell her EVERY DAY to stop being with these looseres and keep to your self. it may be boring but its better than beinbg involved with them.. right??? i told her if she wante dt o "change".. then start spending time with ur kids insted of the loosers.
2006-08-26 05:58:32 · 4 answers · asked by lindsy m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and she flipped out on me saying that she helped me out so i should help her.. but EVERYTIME i have watche her kids, she stays out all night and dont come back when she says she will.. and i am left wondering were the hell she is... but ..i said no.. i told her to stay at home with her girls and not them loosers. and that if she wanted to truly change.. then show me she could and then maybe i would think about takin her kids for a little bit.. cuz then she may truly deserve a "night to relax" she in turn told me that i was an ungratful b**ch and was never to speak to her again.. i was a horrible friend and blah blah.. i told her if she could not ndersatnd what i was trying to explain to her then it was a total waste of my time and that was it.. she could go on wasting her likfe like she has been..... i personlaay think i did the right thing.. i just want some one elses opinion on wether i was wrong or not
2006-08-26 06:03:28 · update #1
oh .. yes.. i have let her watch him a coupl eof times.. only because i know that when she has him.. things are okay... at least i trusted her enough.... to believe they were. when i would go over she never had any one around only cuz she knew i would leave
2006-08-26 06:07:38 · update #2
haha that was funny what they said ^ me. but just give her her space and let her do what she wants to do. she might think your prying into her buisness to much. but i think you did the right thing you truly did.its really hard standing up to a friend when there taking the wrong rode in life but she will thank you later. i promise.
2006-08-26 06:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kaity A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly think you were right then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, but just to support you, yea I think you did the right thing trying to help her, but the 1st answerer had a point, I would think 2x or more about leaving my son w/ her again.
2006-08-26 06:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Surfin'_the_Tide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let this woman watch your son?
2006-08-26 06:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing
2006-08-26 06:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by chaichi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋