I said this earlier:
Why do I have such a low self esteem? I'm stuck in a room with these skinny little cheerleaders and a mirror. I look in that mirror and I see... me. I'm just not sure if I belong. I really wanna quit. Another thing they have that I don't: Self esteem. You know how jelous that makes me? They walk around, "I'm so hot", bla bla bla. I've tried, but I just can't be so sure of myself. Whatever, I just feel like ****. I just can't explain it. My hips look so weird in shorts. I just want to be normal.
Of course, my mom had to make me feel better and say this:)
You have legs I'd kill to have gotten, and you don't have big hips either! I could look at you and whine!!!!!! So- keep on cheerleading and stop looking at the others! There will always be someone thinner and someone fatter!..Remember this---****you're exactly how/who God created you to be!****
Stop looking at others-- who might be thinner but who are not nearly as beautiful on the outside or inside. You have so much more than 95% of people I know! Really! Please, do yourself a favor, and just feel lucky in everything you have and are. You won the lottery bigtime! You were born to parents who love one another bigtime, you have four limbs, a good brain, a gorgeous face, long beautiful legs... Did you ever look at the skinny girls' faces? Did you ever hear this?- you are skinny, and ugly- but I can diet!!!!!!!Just celebrate who you are and don't doubt/pissGod off by complaining about all that He gave you!!! I love you, you lucky duck!
2006-08-26 05:55:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
She is like my bff!!! I love her more than anything!!!!
2006-08-26 06:03:10 · update #1
You have a terrific mom. I take care of elderly people and each one has said "If I only realized how [strong, beautiful,smart,happy.....) I really was, I could have had so much more fun." I know a beautiful woman who is sassy fun and would make three of me and I'm not small. She has self confidence down to an art and it makes her beautiful. If you can fake it until you feel it. Thats what those other girls are thinking underneath all that. Take care and have fun.
2006-08-26 06:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Laura B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww..i know what you mean though, except its the opposite. theres girls who are half my size and say how fat they are in front of me then im like ok...so are you calling me fat cuz i must be a rhino compared to you! but then i realized my self asteem is much better than theres because if i had a problem id fix it because its how i want to be. I play sports constantly and i dont like how muscular i am but what am gonna do right? not do what i love best just because i wanna look good for the part lol. Thats really good thing your mom said and it got me thinking too.
2006-08-26 13:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
surely, you have! you can get over that feeling in time. you will soon get over it! everything has its own reason and purpose. you will later realize how thankful you are and will be more inspired and determined to become the best of what you are. everyone undergo a stage where they feel lost or confuse.. and it's a matter of having the drive to overcome it and solve it. just believe that brighter days are yet to come. pray.
2006-08-26 13:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You have so much more than 95% of people I know!"
That's awful. Your Mum thinks you have "less" than the other 5%.
2006-08-26 13:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spoiled brat! She deserves better than you.
2006-08-26 13:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sure she is the best of the world
2006-08-26 13:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by arman982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋