ok, i like this guy and i want to be his gf, should i tell him how i feel?i'm not sure if he likes me but last night at a dance we slow danced and stuff so i'm not sure. i'm really nervous just thinking about telling him how i feel. pleeze help. and i would prefer answers from the mature people, not kids in the 8th grade.
2006-08-26 05:49:53 · 20 answers · asked by ................................ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
um, NO i'm not in the 8th grade i'm in high school! i've never had a bf, i don't know y, i guess it never really mattered much but now that i found someone that i like i'm not sure how to deal w/ it
2006-08-26 05:56:39 · update #1
Why don't you hang out with him for a bit, and see where that goes. Rushing into relationships is a tough thing to do. A large part being you are both younger. Why don't you talk to him, and see if he would like to go out to do something you both enjoy. Like movies, maybe a fun park of sorts. Getting to know some one first is the key.
2006-08-26 05:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by mudgirl4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have friend talk to him to see how he feels, or just ask him out! I know it seems like your life will end if you get rejected but beleive me the world will not stop moving! You might as well know something now, men are stupid! You can bat your eyes all you want he will just think you have something in it! Tell him you like him the worse that will happen is he will say no and then you can move on to someone else. I flirted with my husband for almost a year before I finally asked him out in high school. Now we are married for 11 years. If it is meant to be it will happen
2006-08-26 13:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by rye252000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Is he slow dancing with other girls?
2. Are you slow dancing with other boys?
3. Did he thank you for dancing with him?
4. Did you tell him that it was fun dancing with him?
5. Make eye contact and smile
6. Make chit chat and sound interested in his life(men like that)
7. Dance with others to show that you are not desperate.
8.Try conversations in other locations and be positive!
9.Keep smiling and slow dancing!
2006-08-26 13:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by blatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him anything. A girl or woman can go so far in being friendly or dropping hints, but if he doesn't make the move, forget it. It's not your role to say anything and you will appear as needy and desperate. And don't listen to liberals or kids who might tell you that it's "okay."
One exception might be that you could invite him to a party, family barbeque or something such as this, which I advised a lady recently.
You wanted mature advice, this is what I've presented.
2006-08-26 12:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why you couldn't tell him how you feel in a private moment. I did with my husband. That's how I got him. He was afriad to ask me. I was lovestruck with him and when the prom came up and I had no date, I asked him and he said yes.
We dated the rest of the school year and after colege married and have 2 kids.
2006-08-30 10:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by greylady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you enjoyed dancing with him and would he like to join you for a movie?
Be prepared to pay but if he wants to pay then let him and smile and say, well may I treat the next time? You are letting him know that you want to get together again.
Don't start out by telling him about your feelings. Just me light and fun. Smile!!!!!!
2006-08-26 13:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by anirbas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
build up a stronger friendship with him and then reveal ur true feelings.take time at doing so. give urself like 6mths. this way if he isn't into u, u will still have a chance at being Friends. something is better than nothing.
2006-08-26 12:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you are in the eight grade. You should not be asking for a mature solution to a juvenile question.
You should probably pull his hair.
2006-08-26 12:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by disorder1974 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u shud tell him how you feel but do it when he is not with his friends otherwise u willl cause him and urself embarrasment and he probably wont tell you his true feelings if he is near his friends and another thing dont tell ur friends (if they kno who u like) your are about to tell him cos they might just follow you around and make it even harder.
2006-08-26 13:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by W H I T E [ s k y * ] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You've got nothing to lose and if he knocks you back, it's harsh but learning to cope with rejection is part of growing up. And you don't want to be left to wonder "what if".
2006-08-26 12:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by ndavos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋