2006-08-26 05:40:07 · 44 answers · asked by john_0502000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dear John,
I love you.
Now, didn't that make you smile? Imagine hearing that from your beautiful wife every single day? She loves to hear it, too.
We are not promised tomorrow, so why not make sure the one's you love know it and hear it from you every day. It may be your last. Read my profile and you'll understand why "I love you's" are big in my book.
Peace and Hope to you & yours,
Regards,
Raylene♥
[your teacher :P ]
2006-08-26 14:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Raylene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guys perspective I do not see the necessity of saying it all the time. However it seems the ladies do like to hear it as often as possible. So where can there be a happy medium? Saying it all the time just becomes redundant. There should be otehr small actions that show or say the same thing. Those 3 words over adn over, in my opinion just do not carry the same importance all the time.
2006-08-26 06:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by legguy2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like a job to say I love you daily. Saying I love you should not be something you have to do. It should just come naturally simply because you love that person and because you want to say it! Your wife should not want you to say it just because she wants to hear it. She should realize that you already love her and that goes unsaid. Just because someone says I love you doesn't make it any better or more special, it's the actions that show love. If you feel it then tell her you love her but it should not become a daily function like having a bowel movement or urination or going to work. Telling her you love should feel good and be spontaneous. Just as being told I love you, it should feel good and it is not a chore.
2006-08-26 05:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some yes,i used to be one of those people untill i got with the guy im with now and have been with the past 11 yrs. it bothered me at first because hearing it daily was what i was used to.my guy does not tell me he loves me daily. when i asked why this was his answer.so many people say that phrase so easily that it becomes a habit without the meaning behind it. when he tells me this i know its coming from the heart and means every word. it depends on the person i guess
2006-08-26 06:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling her is nice, but not really necessary IF you show her, by your actions every day, that she is the most important thing in the world to you. Now, that does take some thought and effort, but if a guy does this, she'll make him the happiest guy on earth. Women are suckers for a guy that adores them. Heck, it even works for an ugly old fart like me. LOL
2006-08-26 06:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you consider it to be such a "chore" - maybe it is because the feeling isn't genuine. My husband and I tell each other that a minimum of 5 to 6 times a day. And no - we aren't young nor are we newlyweds. We just like to express our love and appreciation for each other. If it is because you are uncomfortable with the words - try leaving little love notes for her in an unexpected place like her coat pocket or stuck inside her purse. You might be surprised at the benefits!
2006-08-26 05:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Necessary, no. Desirable to do so, YES!
Personally though, I prefer the actions to words...you know..the calling to let me know he'll be home late so I won't worry, the offering to do the cooking when I am all tired out, the shoulder rubs, sometimes he will even scoop all four litter boxes when I am running late in the morning...that is love :)
2006-08-26 07:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Matilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in today's world life is to short, @ the end of the day if u have someone u can go home 2. then YES tell ur wife daily as much as possible how much u love & appericate her.
2006-08-26 06:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only necessary if you like your marriage. If you are mature enough to get married, you should know the answer is yes. So go tell her you love her.
2006-08-26 06:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I share "I love you" at least a half a dozen times a day. We are very affectionate with each other and we are totally head over heals in love.
With previous relationships I never used the 3 word phrase. It felt weird. With my current honey, it is very natural and confortable.
2006-08-26 06:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Smartypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋