why am alone all the time ?

Question

does this happen to you ? Im always by myself and i hate it . I make firends and such and Im very social but i always end up alone. Its getting tired. Maybe people think im wierd or something .
Im shy to call people to do stuff but im superoutgoing. why am i scared about what people think of me? i think im going crazy

Answer 1

You just might be!! People who are alone are that way by their life choices. You need to take inventory of self. When you are out with people is always on your terms?? Is it all about you, or do you enjoy doing things with & for OTHER people. These are the questions you need to ask yourself. Remember to have friends you must be a friend.

Answer 2

"Im shy to call people to do stuff but im superoutgoing."
This sounds to me like a self-contradiction... being 'shy' and 'super-outgoing' just don't seem to go together.
"Why am I scared about what people think of me?"
That's a good question, and one that nobody can answer save yourself. I used to have the same attitude, until one day I woke up and realized that no matter what I do, *somebody* is *always* going to have *something* to say about it. So I stopped living for society and started living for me, and I'm a happier man for it. There are very few people whose opinions carry any weight with me at all nowadays.
In the end, let me leave you with this piece of advice: We are most often prisoners of our own mind, bu the strength it takes to break out is often greater than that which it took to build the walls in the first place. Turn of your I-Give-A-Damn and start living *your* life for *you.*

Answer 3

All I can tell you is I have spent the last three years of college in the same situation, I have friends and love going out but I'm often alone. I've come to the conclusion you just have to get over your fear/ shyness and get out there. It's the only way. The more you go out the less shy you will be about it, and it is sooo much more fun. I've had twice as many dates and I plan on having as many memories to take away my senior year as possible. Just get out there and meet everyone. Good Luck

Answer 4

First thing first, I think your young. Although, you never mentioned your age. Your never alone, surely you have more faith than that. Being social isn't that hard, just pick-up the phone, you'll be surprised to see how many have been waiting for you too. In all reality, it takes someone strong to make the first move. Try it!! Psssst.... You're not crazy, get that out of your head.

Answer 5

Thats me!!
Yeah, I'm VERY shy and when i DO talk like at school, the people who are always telling me to talk just stop talking.
I feel stuck.
Sometimes being urself doesnt work and so i guess u have to b someone else, then b urself.
:S

Answer 6

bring up things like movies you want to see, concerts or other events in your areas, and try to form a group of the people you are currently hanging out with to go to that.

Answer 7

If you find someone to be close to, someone who you can share you feelings and your experiences with...and someone who tries to share themself with you, then you'll be on the road to self-confidence, and if you make one friend, you can make lots more who share your extravertedness.

Answer 8

I don't think your crazy. don't think about it just do it. We sometime over analyze situations and make things that should be easy hard.

Answer 9

DONT THINK ABOUT IT TOO MUCH, JUST RING AND SAY WHAT YOU UP TOO AND IF THEY SAY NOTHING THEN U WONT FEEL SILLY ASKIN IF THEY WANNA DO SUMTHING WHATS THE WORST THEY CAN SAY IM BUSY OR NO OR THEY MITE SAY YES AND THEN U WONT FEEL SO ALONE.....

Answer 10

Maybe you arnt comfortable with and/or confident in your self.