ok my bf and i got in a fight last night i cussed him out and told him 2 forget about me but i really did'nt mean that i love him with all my heart i talked with him a few minutes ago and he said i understand i 'll forgte about u ! but i dont want him to ! men answer this
2006-08-26 04:55:26 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is exactly the problem with relationships today.
There is NO communication between the two parties.
You need to learn to count to 10, and take deep breaths before you fly off the handle and say hurtful things to someone that you claim to love.
And then sit down and discuss whatever has upset you and come to a compromise with that person.
Your best bet is to go and sincerely apologize to your guy, tell him that what you did was uncalled for and that you deeply regret your actions and your words.
Just saying your sorry does not always work. You have to discuss the situation, tell him that you know that you were wrong, and that you will try to learn to deal with your issues in a more positive way.
and then I have also known people who ............when a door is shut in their face, they never open that door and walk back through it again. No matter how apologetic you are.
So it is going to depend on how much your guy loves you on what the out come is going to be after you apologize and whatever.
2006-09-02 05:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get him back if you really love him, it sounds like he only said that he will forget you because he wasn't prepared to lose face, he was hurt, how else would he respond, he could only have went 2 ways breakdown, and beg you to stay or pretend he didn't care.
From what you said, I think it sounds like you where very hard on him, but that depends what the argument was actually about, maybe he isn't a great guy, or maybe you argue to mu ch and he thought to hell with it, ive had enough.
It is hard to say but, what you really need to do it talk to the guy, sit down and have a serious talk explain why you said what you said, try to work it out. He might play a little hard to get if you have been harsh a lot in the past, but if he really cares he will be prepared to sit down and talk.
Good luck, I hope it works out for you.
2006-09-02 19:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by christie_is_the_name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I personally think resorting to cussing is very immature way of dealing with a person you claim you love. You did tell him to forget about you-those threats will get you nowhere in a relationship. If you guys have these type of fights often he may just be sick of it and I am not saying he is a saint but I am in a commited relationship and yes we fight but we never raise our voices or cuss at each other. At time we take breathers when we disagree then when we are calm we deal with the situation.
2006-09-02 18:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by anjelahoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately your boyfriend is being immature. When you are in a comitted relationship ...often you have to look past and see what truly means the most to you.. Why be hung up on a fight, over words that were said when being in the arms of the one person you can find solace in...the one person who can make you melt with the very sound of their voice. If you and he are going to make it work...then make it work, despite the rants and raves from day to day.....you can both be happy but you both have to want it. So i say to you, swallow any pride...in a relationship there is no room for it...even if he wants to act childish just open your heart to him...tell him everything you want to say...and if you are meant to be together he will swallow his pride and work things out with you... I wish you all the best.
Today does not matter if you didnt enjoy the ride getting here
2006-08-26 06:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Not Important 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we could only take back those cruel words spoken in a moment of anger, I have regretted many cruel things, that I have spoken to a loved one, you are going to have to work hard in the future to regain the love and respect, he deserves. Hopefully he will stay around long enough for you to make amends. He has been hurt in this confrontation, don't waste time apologizing to him, do it now. In the future give some thought, before you put it into words.
2006-09-01 17:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does 'forget about you' he was looking for a way out of the relationship and used this as an excuse. Otherwise, he will accept your apology and your promise to act more mature in the next argument. Think before speaking/yelling.
2006-09-03 03:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here doll, i've been away fae the girl o my dreams 4 bout year n a haf or so. Think bout her every day, not sure if i love her any more but thats not the point. If u do love this dude with all your heart like you say then dont let him go, you'll only regret it in the future. Also you'll prob find it's burstin his nut not being with you aswell. Sort it out, coz its a horrible state to be in.....!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-02 09:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by ony114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you feel.
tell him that you are sorry.
have a heart to heart and see what he thinks. he might have been looking for an excuse to find someone else because he is tired of the immature fighting
2006-08-30 15:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U WILL NOT DIE!!! IT'S A LIFE EXPERIENCE! YOU SHOULD REALLY WORRY IF YALL DIDNT HAVE FIGHTS. JUST APOLOGIZE IF HE'S STILL BEING STUBORN JUST GIVE HIM TIME IF HE DON'T WANT TO GET BACK WITH YOU. U CAN'T MAKE NO ONE BE WITH YOU. SOME PEOPLE ARE ONLY PUT IN YOUR LIFE FOR A SEASON FOR A REASON LEARN FROM IT AND GET OVER IT LIFE GOES ON.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 04:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Pecantan81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go apologies - i fight with my fiancee all the time and we shout and scream but we love each other and saying sorry always works and u know what they say
make up sex is the best
2006-08-26 05:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by EXZODIER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋