if u love someone what sacrifices are u ready to do for her or him? maybe loosing your job for being with her/him, or leaving a family behind u or maybe quitting school....
2006-08-26 04:48:39 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can truly say that i would go to the ends of the earth without a doubt for the ones i love, because i know how to love selflessly...trust me there would be nothing i wouldn't do for the ones i love, even if i was afraid, i would put my fears to one side because i love them that much.
2006-08-26 04:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Insanity, why would someone want to loose their loving family, home and job for someone they love? Take it from me, keep your family close and realize only true nuts and people with their screws loose or a need to cause long term suffering would ask you to make such sacrifices.
Can we say, let's hang with the devil. I hung with the devil and lost big time. Also, the richer a person is the more they can tend to advocate sacrificing, because money is a great redeemer it can put your family back together or destroy it for lack of.
I would advocate, love is not all about sacrifice, it is about adapting, loving the family of your spouse as well as your own and being honest. Remember, you only exist because your parents decided you would. Most people in my experience, only act completely honest after they dump someone or after they get what they want.
And after they get what they want, if you run into those types that advocate you making sacrifices, do you even know what your scarifice might mean compared to their sacrifice? Players & mind-gammers will move on after they have finished their game of being a lunatic & conquering your soul and body.
Remember, not everyone can afford to play games that cost emotional currency and money! Forget scarifice, ask what you can do for each other and build on what exist, the past can never be disconnected from completely. Sacrifice is wrong for love and only years latter can one reflect and say I wrecked a good life and traded it for a low-life who left me long ago.
Love is about building, not endless games of who did what for who.
2006-08-26 12:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by Donald P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a funny one cause we just spoke of this last weekend. My fiance and I live 2.5 hours apart. We are getting married next May an one of us have to relocate. Although I make about twice the salary it looks like I will be the one to make the move. I also have a pair of granddaughters, one of my sons, my daughter in law, many friends and a mother in my home town. She has interests in two small businesses and likes her area better than mine, but no family to keep her there. It is indeed a difficult decision but one that must be made. I love this woman and we are not kids either so I am old enough to realize what I am doing and do not feel I will regret my sacrifice.
2006-08-26 11:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person loves you they would never make you leave ur family friends or school. So if they are you better start thinking about how much do you really love this person if they are taking u away from everything you love and know.
2006-08-26 11:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to do anything possible for the person I loved, now I realized it's not worthy or I have never loved since.
2006-08-26 15:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by anamaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how far will this person let you go is the ? if this person is not making personal sacrifices themselves then you need to take another look at what is important
2006-08-26 11:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by mygirlfriends_now 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest i moved alway from my family and quit school some this guy i was have his kid and when she was 5 months he dumped me for another girl and married her the next yr so i wouldnt do that again for any guy unless i know he wouldnt leave me r dump me
2006-08-26 11:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_cowgirl8321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above. Be very careful about people who have nothin.g to lose. It sounds as though you have a lot to lose
2006-08-26 11:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was just puppy love then nuthing bc i know i will blow over...but if its 4 true love then i would give it all up
2006-08-26 11:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by Tiny Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its real, true love.... i'll do whatever it takes
2006-08-26 11:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋