Is it possible for someone to love more than one people at one time. Can anyone be attached to more then two people of opposite sex at same point of time and that also seriously not for the sake of fun. Is it natural?
2006-08-26 04:08:21 · 50 answers · asked by TT 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Attraction is beyond our control. No matter what type of relationship we're in, we will always be attracted to other - it's human nature. What determines the succes of your relationships and the amount of happiness and fulfillment you get from those relationships depends on whether you act on those attractions or take them for what they are - natural and unavoidable, but fleeting. Pursue what really matters.
2006-08-26 04:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by tsdeck5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As confusing as it may be, it is very much possible and nothing to be ashamed of. That said 'love' is a term you shouldn't use too lightly.
To give you an example, four years ago* I had a crush on a flatmate of mine that led nowhere because we both had relationships and despite the attraction I loved my girlfriend more than I fancied my flatmate. At the same time I also had two very attractive colleagues and I wasn't entirely over my ex-girlfriend whom I had broken up with when I moved to Scotland. Confusing times, but if one can manage not to think with the nether parts all the time it will be alright. It's a problem of luxury, so don't worry too much - by the time you reach thirty you'll be married, you'll have kids and a mortgage and it will all be over.
2006-08-26 06:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ? It's been happening with everyone, almost every moment, hence it's possible & is very common. For example, just suppose U R a male, won't U love your daughter, your spouse & your mom of being opposite sex, your sister, your girlfriends & so on at the same time ? More than two persons isn't it ? Just give it a thought carefully & B serious. It's very natural.
2006-08-26 05:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not possible to love more than one person at a time in the romantic way (as opposed to the family way), because love is not an emotion; it's a choice. It's the decision that you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone who feels the same way; that you're going to take care of that person, and stand by their side through the good and the bad. You're not in love with either person; you have a lot of growing up to do (unfortunately, a lot of people these days never do grow up).
2006-08-26 05:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy Johnson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human mind is a very difficult thing to understand,, yah it's possible to love more then one opposite sex people,, but carefully try to find out that those two are also attach with u at same time?/ but it's all a natural behave,, coz we like some faces that they r quite pretty,, and some people for thier kind behave,, soem for thier intelligence,, so so so
2006-08-26 04:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by mani cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally natural. I take it you're young. You have a hormone that makes you attracted to every stunning beauty you see. It will take a long time for you to really fall in love with someone, and then you should begin to notice fewer other women. Until then, try to keep the "getting to know you" stage narrowed down to 2 or 3 women at a time. Makes things less confusing.
2006-08-26 04:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes This is a time for learning and looking deep before you leap. It is also a multiply choice. Choice A may look good on your arm, but must remain there because it is the only way they can stand. Choice B may look good on your arm, but must remain there because the idea of standing alone just looks bad. Now your choice is which of your needs these 2 best satisfy. Which one of the two choices will you choose. You must make the best possible choice in the end. Remember you are not the only one learning here.
2006-08-26 04:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Spann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you human? I think yes. Although we are supposed to be with one person and make that commitment...how many times do u find in life that one person can make you float on a cloud bcuz of the things they say about you and them together...and then another person make u feel tingles all through your body that make u feel so high on life...but those feelings come from 2 different people. Hey none of us are perfect, and to say that you can honestly find the "right" person all wrapped up into one package....well I dont think that is possible. I think that different souls mesh well together and they are not from just one person... but from many that we meet in life. you get a certain something special from each and every person that comes across your path for a reason...in time you will learn what that reason is and who you should dedicate your heart to and who should remain a friend that knows how to make you smile.
2006-09-02 03:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can be attracted to more than one person at a time but I'm not too sure about loving 2 people. As friends...yes, but I don't think you can truly be in love with more than 1 person at a time. Not if it is true love, anyway.
2006-09-02 00:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my yes! I'd hazard that if you live long enough you'll begin to accumulate them! I sure have. I can't just turn affection and attraction on and off. Even in my divorces I still love those Girls, behavior not withstanding. Others as well along the way, some Women just get under your skin. Of course feeling and acting upon these feelings is seldom cool with your other if your hooked up! Oh my, can the Girls ever get upset if they feel your directing feelings to some one else! It sparks off them! Really something to see, if your brave of course; it can degenerate from there pretty quickly, LOL! It's natural, but you've got to be mindful of who your with! Great question, thanks.
2006-08-26 07:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋