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Confidence comes when you finnally accept yourself as you are and believe that you are worthy enough!
2006-08-26 04:07:20
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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i think confidence comes when you stop caring about what people think.
physical image is only a tiny layer of who you are .
when you are happy with who you are, and accept who you are as a person then youll feel comfortable and confident, and say what ever you want and wear or do whatever you feel cos you dont care what people think.
hmm to MAKE yourself more confident...
maybe write a little list...who are you ,whats your personality like all your good attributes.and keep telling yourself...i am an awesome person so there, im funny ,im loyal , im helpful,i have nice eyes,hair whatever bla bla yknow?
and really if your mostly sane and you dont have an arm growing out of your head or something weird like that , theres no reason to not feel confident.you have the right to be confident.
hmm perhaps that didnt help...
2006-08-26 04:37:00
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answer #2
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answered by laydee 1
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If you're not a naturally confident person, I suppose you just have to build on it...I feel so much better about myself if I make sure I look my absolute best before I leave the house; heels and good clothes always make you feel fantastic...Even if you're not confident, you just have to act like you are and eventually it'll become a reality. Try focusing on everything going on around you rather than on yourself coz that'll just make you more self-conscious... I have confidence problems myself but you'll get there eventually, it's tough, but it all works out in the end hun!
x
2006-08-26 08:55:24
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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Having faith in yourself and so is good talk and everything.
But being a 15 yr old girl myself,sitting myself down and trying to give myself a speech so I can go up and say for example give a speech infront of an entire room never really helped.
I kind of cheated myself to self confidence since I was little and know I have a reputation of having a very strong personality.
idk if it would work on other people but idk..just like someone said.
Look good.I once had this big challenge infront of me.
Well big considering my age.There was a big event when i was like 12? and I played a big role in it and had zero confidence to go do it.
I had this crazy idea to go to a salon the day before.
I think seeing myself in the mirror with my body all pampered and my hair all done gave this huge push I could've never gotten before.
I felt...new.
I also put on a mix of my favourite music that reminded me of the strength I had inside but had zero knowledge about how to bring it to the surface.
It just lifted my spirit.
I think talking to your mind and body isn't enough.
I think showing myself that day,that I had to become different and actually took it to an extreme and changed my appearance to actually force it to know that I couldn't go on like that and had to take a different turn in my life and change.
Plus knowing that you look good never made anyone shy.
Regardless of how you look normally.Just the feeling you get when you step out of a beauty salon is undescribable.
I know it might sound stupid and not quite inspirational but hey it worked for me :)
2006-08-26 04:20:17
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answer #4
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answered by Musician 2
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If you look in the local paper or get the number of your local directory enquiries, they'll have an adult education centre in your area. These centres very often run evening classes for people with the same issues as you. They are usually free and will help you to overcome your shyness.
If the local AEC cant help, ask your GP. He/she, will know of similar groups.
Confidence is something you gain from age and experience, you WILL get it eventually. It comes when you stop caring what other people think about you.
Try not to worry too much, take care xxx
2006-08-26 04:17:28
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answered by Rose 3
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By learning to love yourself , you gain confidence then you feel great about yourself
2006-08-28 13:04:22
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answered by jazzie_jue 2
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believe in you, trust that you only can do what you need to to succeed. do'nt let yourself not be stronger, more beautiful or need to feel low. pick yourself up, take a walk on your own and see how many people their are out there who have what u have. being you isenough to boost anyones confidence.
2006-08-26 04:36:48
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answered by KEITH S 1
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stop believing people are better then you and believe in yourself, don't let people put you down and dont put yourself down, dont care what people think of you. be positive in everything you do.
life will also help make you more confident
2006-08-26 04:16:33
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answer #8
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answered by sasha 4
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Keep a positive mind, that means , do not let any negative, evil forces get in your mind.
A good bible verse in the brain helps alot.
If someone ridicules you, give them a compliment instead of
getting mad....that will turn their attitude around.
Good Luck and remember we all are humans and make
mistakes.
2006-08-26 04:35:58
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answer #9
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answered by sunflare63 7
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set yourself little targets, nothing major and evrtime you achieve one it will help. Thats the theroy anyway. Feel free email me on the subject its something i have had a lot of trouble with for a long time.
2006-08-26 04:24:13
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answer #10
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answered by bullatpool 3
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