a while back my husbands ex wife accused him of molesting thier son-which he didn't. we both were investigated by the chief of police and dcfs. me and my husbands story didn't match hers so they gave her a lie detecter test. she failed every question. the chief of police wanted to press charges so we did, thet are charging her with a felony. so my question is would you oress charges against the her if this was you. i really think the reason he's doing it is to get custody of their son. do you think they would give him to us for her doing this. the states attirney and chief are really mad at her for wasting their time and money. and also when they arrest her we will have temp custody so do you think we will have to switch schools or keep taking him back and forth to his current school until they decide who gets him. i havd a daughter the same age i have to get to school also. i can't get them to and from at the same time becouse the schools are too far apart.
2006-08-26 04:03:45 · 6 answers · asked by mommy_dearest 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok the children are both 5 so they are too young to be left alone at the bus stop and we do have a lawyer working on it
2006-08-26 04:18:38 · update #1
what do you tell the boy? tell him that his mom lied to the cops and she has to be punished? we do have problems with him lying maybe it help him. we've been trying to get custody she's had dcfs called on her before and she's been in the mental hospital before. and the he comes over saying and doing things a 5yr old should not know about. that's kinda how this whole thing started we told her he was trying to touch the girls inapproperatly and trying to get them to touch him. he once told my youngest to sit on his face. so i think she tried to tell on us before we could tell on her
2006-08-26 04:32:16 · update #2
To the first question, YES I would press charges. That could have ruined both of your lives for ever. She deserves the worst punishment she can get.
To the second question, I think it may be in the boy's best interest to change schools and start fresh. He will not have to answer any questions about what happened and why his mom is not bringing him to school. Since your daughter is already at the new school, it would make sense for them to both be there. Kids get over changing schools. He will be OK.
2006-08-26 04:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unaware of how laws actually work in USA. However, here in Canada it is whatever is in the child's best interest that is paramount when deciding on placement of the child. I would imagine that it the same with our neighbours. It appears that your husbands ex is a very angry lady and Karma has come to bite her in the butt for fabricating false stories about you both. I would speak with my attorney regarding placing the child into a different school, I doubt that it would be problematic though. Best of luck with this situation.
2006-08-26 11:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok too many issues here.
1) as for the mother of ur hubbys son. she is his mother. imagine what he will go though if any thing happens to her. if he wants custody then he will have to do it the right way and present the FAMILY COURT NOT CRIMINAL COURT with the facts of the felony.he most likely will get custody if facts r presented proper ly
2) as for the school. dear sometimes u have to make sacrafices. see which school provides with bus service. if it is his school then let him go by bus if it is her school let her go by bus. i think this boy is going through enough and doesnt need to change schools until u have full custdy of him.
PS it makes a lot of differnce deending on their age and u havent mentioned their age. and always be suppotive of him. be a good mom to him and love him like ur own. best of luck
2006-08-26 11:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been there and I feel for you. My advice would be to talk to a lawer, who understands how the laws and courts work in your part of the country. Remember this, the health and welfare of the boy is the most important thing. Your actions could set a precedent for years to come so be careful. Please hire a lawer.
2006-08-26 11:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get custody of the child. If it means pressing charges or not...but, get custody.
2006-08-26 11:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can get her for wrongful prosecution. That should do it.
2006-08-26 11:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by robee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋