2006-08-26 04:03:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Just because your boyfriend is paralyzed does not mean he can't feel things, it just means he can't move.
You need to ask him and experiment with him if he wants to find out what he can feel and what you can do for/with him to give him pleasure as well as yourself.
I hope you are asking this because you are wanting to help him and please him and not just to be able to please yourself. I think it is great that you care enough to worry about his feelings.
Just talk with him and find out. If he can't tell you then no one can.
Good luck and have fun, take good care of him.
2006-08-26 04:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how bad the injuries to the nerves were. If your boyfriend can feel anything to do with the penis, then there is always a chance for him to enjoy sex. Whether it's orally or you on top. If he can't get an erection, then there are other ways to help that as well.
Remember though, while sex is enjoyable, there are different ways of pleasure. Touching above the waist can be enjoyable, even if you can't have sex. The main this is, do you love each other enough to keep a possibly sexless relationship or maybe marriage going? If you do, then you've a very strong tie. And something that not many people can achieve.
2006-08-26 04:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Voice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe with a penis pump. And No. Paralyzed means no enjoyment. The pump will be doing the work of his muscles. He won't be feeling anything.
2006-08-26 04:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"intercourse force" and means to have intercourse are 2 countless issues. If I grew to alter into paraplegic the following day, that would desire to in elementary terms replace the flaws i might desire to do with intimate agency - it does not replace me wanting to do it. counting on the particular set of nerves in touch, some quantity of feeling or reaction could be left. i'm no longer in that state, nevertheless - i'm hoping those with first-hand adventure of their own or of their lover will help fill you in.
2016-09-30 00:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by wiemer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry...but most likelys theres no chance at all. if he's paralyzed that means his body isn't reconizing the signals from his brain, therefore his penis wouldn't reconize any type of excitement.
2006-08-26 04:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by alexwhlr3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your b/f can talk he can tell you if he is capable of having sex and if he enjoys it.
2006-08-26 04:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by 2Hott2Touch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can get it up He probable can feel it unless he is fantasizing about it.But if you love him sex shouldn't be that important.
2006-08-26 04:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a question you need to ask him. Everyone is different due to where their spinal injury is.
2006-08-26 04:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by pritigrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your boyfriend.
If he doesn't know, have him ask his doctor.
2006-08-26 04:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋