My husband and I have this disagreement all the time and I need some help to understand him.
We live way out in the country in deep woods on a dirt road and have such little traffic that goes down are road. I will run around with just a t-shirt on and he hates me doing this cause he thinks that everyone will see me....If its dark he won't even wear his underwear around the house without a pair of pants or shorts on and hates it when he goes to bed when the light is on thinking that someone will see him through the window. Is he a little bit paranoyed or what??? I always tell him that hes crazy that know one can see him. What do you think?
2006-08-26 03:52:45 · 14 answers · asked by lady_bug418 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well let him do what he will if he feels someone might see him. And you should wear what you want around house. I mena how would you know even if someone might see you. No big deal! Just be comfortable yourself.
2006-08-26 06:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by legguy2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's who he is, and this will continue to be a point of disagreement. Not everyone is comfortable with their bodies, and some are shy. Personally, I'm with you......I'd love to be able forego some clothes. Unfortunately I don't have the benefit of living in the country, deep in the woods on a a dirt road! You might want to agree to disagree. Let him keep his shorts, and he'll need to respect your t-shirt (BTW...that doesn't seem so risky?!?!). I bet if you went topless.....he'd be happy to let you go back to the t-shirt......or maybe not!
2006-08-26 11:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats cool that you live where absolutely no one could ever be lurking in the woods watching. I guess where you live, there are no crimes ever commited. I too live in a wooded area, but i wouldn't feel right running around in front of windows half dressed, because i live in the real world where people could be lurking.
2006-08-26 10:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Crazymomo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it is about his personal comfort level, and you can't ridicule him for feeling the way he does. If you want to run around the house half-naked... do so, tell him that you have no inhibitions... but don't force your beliefs on him, or he may see you in a different light.
2006-08-26 10:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sue_Render_Urself_2Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, yeah, he does sound a little bit paranoid. But everybody's different and things like that don't come from nowhere. Maybe he caught someone peeking at him once and it's freaked him out since.
2006-08-26 10:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't want to see your naked behind all the time. put some clothes on woman (grin). Why do you even wear a t-shirt. Just go nude.
seriously, maybe he's just not comfortable with it. that's his feeling. have you asked him? you never know who's lurking in the woods, especially if they find you outside with no pants on. whoo hooo.
2006-08-26 11:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good man...if this is all you argue about you have it made! get some pajamas!...This is a no-brainer...and too much energy put into fighting over this....Make a deal with him. That he go purchase you some pajamas WITH YOU.... and make a date of it...you need at least 3 pair for now...go out to eat a nice dinner...see a movie...and get sexy with him when you get home...and love one another...be nice....don't fight ANYMORE!
2006-08-26 11:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me he sounds like some one living in 1947, but still in a marriage compromise is important, instaed of making it a big issue which will affect ur marriage just where a shorts when he is around, when he is not then do as u like. best of luck
2006-08-26 10:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he may be alittle paranoid but if it will make him feel better wear more clothes atleast while he's home, just be careful ur in the woods u never know what could happen good luck
2006-08-26 11:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a bit paranoid, if I lived in the country, I would be like you
2006-08-26 10:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by cherrygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋