ok... so this is a common type of ? but really--I still wonder and feel badly... got a great guy, we have great sex, make our own home movies, do it all, mulitorgasmic.... and on a body scale...ok , I'm not a 25 yo SI swimsuit model--but in shape, look like a woman who has a had a few kids ( the abs are not pancake flat but not bulging either)--but have a womanly body.... no fat, boobs, larger pu**y lips, good skin and am told I look younger by 10 years all the time.
Still, my BF-- gets into porn--some of the fake stupid kind but also some of the real HARD core stuff. ( he does watch our stuff too)
My question is to the guys... do you compare, do you see your woman's imperfections and wish she looked like them; if you have a great sex life and a good woman, then what's the need for the porn??? Do you wish her boobs, her vagina, her butt looked like theirs.....????I will watch our stuff but feel so uncomfortable with the other stuff- makes me feel inadequate and unattractive
thanks
2006-08-26 03:46:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not a guy, but i want to know the answers to this too. I have the same issues. I have 4 kids, my youngest is 3. I am just now getting into some kind of shape other than fat. You know... the inbetween body. My hips are my trouble spots. I hate it. I lost @35 lbs since my 3 year old was born. I'm muscular though, so some of that mass is waht i want. My boobs are like deflated balloons...hate that too! The funny thing is..i'm 29 and always get mistaken for 18 or 19. Thats the only thing that makes me feel good.
.....I am going to watch the answers on this one, thanks for asking the question for us woman!
2006-08-26 03:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I watch porn and I have a fine wife. It is mainly for to learn more and exciting positions. I can't think of new and exciting positions and I don't want her to get Bord with the same old things ever night so I use porn movies as a learning tool. Not because I'm unhappy with the way that my wife look.
2006-08-26 04:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by keith_r83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, it sounds like dude has a high sex-drive. I'm sure his intent. is not to make you feel inadequate but more to keep his own self going. Since yore sexual relationship seems to be going very well, consider this. He may be using these videos as an educational tool so he does not disappoint you. To keep things fresh, if you will. Remember this, if you were not good enough, he would be gone. Those models would be fun to play with, but as a rule they are not worth keeping.So again Relax. and enjoy
2006-08-26 04:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is totally satisfied with you but you have to remember that porn is a type of entertainment. There are people addicted to it but that is as far as it goes most of the time. Sure every guy would love to have his woman look like a porn star but they aren't going to go celebit till they find that woman which most of the time wouldn't look twice at them any way. Just be glad he is just looking at porn and not out there testing the waters
2006-08-26 03:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making home porn videos will backfire once you guys end the relationship...and YOU will end this relationship. 98% chance. I would find the tapes and erase them of you before you boyfriends puts them on the net for the whole world to see. He may have already.
OH and men are visual and we ALL look at porn. The ones who say no are lying.
2006-08-26 03:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys have a sex drive that needs an outlet even when they are in a relationship and having sex. It's normal to use porn to "work off" that extra sex energy. I wouldn't worry unless he looks for another woman. maybe you could share porn together and it would seem less threatening
2006-08-26 03:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my girls is fine the way she is, and NO silicon. Porn movies show plasticized models and the sex has nothing to do adversely against my girl. We both get down and dirty plenty, just sometimes, I need a little 'alone' time. Don't take it personal if you're still getting all you need.
2006-08-26 03:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel that way...
Just like most women NEED to shop, most guys NEED to look at porn. We are in no way comparing our women to those women, we just watch. And after we are done looking at it we dont even think about what we saw, its just one of those things for the moment.
Believe me, you have nothing to feel insecure about. My wife also doesnt understand why we look at porn, but she knows that I find her beautiful and I dont compare her to porn.
2006-08-26 03:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Goya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of men still go for other woman in porn and always looking at what they cant have but hope to. its not you hell he counld have jesaca simson next to him and just had sex with her for hours on end video it. but still needs more...it a never ending therst for more try giving him sex with you and a 2nd gril and it still will not stop him, but it will be fun for both of you
2006-08-26 03:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are guys.. They may look at hot girls, even think about porn stars.. but in the end, they'll come running to the women they truly love. it's natural. but then again, if you're uncomfortable with that, discuss it with him....
2006-08-26 03:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Smile2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋