My ex-guy friend told me after we had an argument to never call him again and to erase his number from my phone. He got mad at me for calling him "when he's busy", but he called me at work several times pressuring me to do something I really didn't feel comfortable doing. He also said I frustrate him, because I'm always telling him to quit raising his voice at me (he claims he doesn't but he does). Also he's tried to cheat on his present and previous girlfriends with me without any thought whatsoever (he's a cheater). He says I can't call him anymore, because he has a gf now, but he sure didn't mind trying to cheat on her with me recently and in the past. The day before he said all this, he was trying to touch and kiss on me. I'm hurt by this, but for some reason I still wanna call him. Why, and would it be wrong if I did try to call and talk to him? I've apologized for hanging up on him and for whatever reason already.
2006-08-26 03:45:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 25 and he's 31.
2006-08-26 03:52:14 · update #1
He is one of the very few people I know here (haven't been here that long).
2006-08-26 04:02:53 · update #2
Well in my opinion this fella doesn't even deserve your call, in your question you have mounds and mounds of reasons y this guy shouldn't be in your life; he is disrespectful to you, and he seems as if he doesn't care about you or his current gf. You should distance your self from this guy and take you some "ME TIME". Don't put yourself through his mess anymore. He isn't worth your time or love. There are many men out there who will treat you as you should be treated, with compassion, honesty and respect. You deserve better.
2006-08-26 03:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, but I am guessing pre teen or teen. I would not call him. I know the tempation is strong. you want to call him because you miss him and the attention he gives you. There's nothing wrong with that as it's universal to want to feel special and be paid attention to. I would say just hang out with your other friends and try and forget about him for now. I am sure he will be calling you again soon, and hopefully by that time you will have found another guy friend who treats you better.
2006-08-26 03:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by demurewoman2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I wish I knew the answer to why we continue to call people when they're so bad for us. I've got the same problem with my mother right now.
My very honest opinion here is that you need to totally cut this guy out. He sounds like a jerk. He's got double standards, pressures you when you've told him no, he raises his voice at you... and the fact that he cares so little about his relationships with other women tells me that he's going to treat you exactly the same way. You deserve better.
Don't call this guy back. Get yourself busy - do projects, spring clean, go out with friends - make every second busy so that you're not thinking about it. Keep your friends around you if you have to, and ask them to help you keep from calling him if you need to.
Good luck!
2006-08-26 03:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless u just want to be that girl that he calls for a piece, u shouldnt call but then again ur gonna do what u feel, but at least u have enough sense to know he is a cheater an most likely will always b.
2006-08-26 03:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used by him to satisified his desire whenever he wants you. He is never gonna be serious with you since you had allowed him to treat you with no respect.
He didn't get together with you and now he is cheating with you and have a girlfriend, you will be used by him forever until the day he got bore of you and dump you for a younger girl mistress.
You need to move on with your life as there is nothing good will come out of your affair with this man.
Why belittle youself by stay with him when you can have so much better choice of man out therer? Why do you accept to be used by someone who treat you likd trash and still want to be with him?
Move on to something better, you'll thank youself later on
2006-08-26 03:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an asshole and u are stupid for wanting to be with someone like him!I mean he's nuts, he has complexes and do u really wanna be with someone who has like a 100girlfriends and hurts u the whole time?What is this supposed to be?A relationship?U should be more mature.Get a life-and Away from him!Don't ever call him again for your own sake.Be careful,.
2006-08-26 03:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two should just stay away from each other. Your description sounds like a volatile relationship and too often close friends do eventually turn into lovers - you don't need to put up with such a man.
Peace!
2006-08-26 03:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have big time feelings for this guy,understood? Dump this sucker, he wants his cake and wants to eat it too. Ya know. you'll thank yourself in the long run
2006-08-26 03:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by J.M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, he is not worth ur time.
2006-08-26 04:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart....don't call him...let it go.....move on....
2006-08-26 03:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋