I am married not to happy!! I was on myspace and found a girl i work with my age...talked to her she didnt know it was me..found out she has been thinking about giving me head or sex at work and wants to meet me.. she told me some of the things she likes to do and it sounds like it will be fun alot of fun..said things like she gets horny at work and goes to the bathroom to masturbate i was really turned on and i am thinking of meeting her she knows im married just wants friends with benefits
2006-08-26 03:34:43 · 17 answers · asked by Brian H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Um.............Friends with benefits? lol. Um............ go for it.
2006-08-26 03:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by KayDaviam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so wrong. If you are not happy talk to ur wife. This girl at work doesn't care about you, she just wants to get laid and use u since u are attached then she doesn't have to worry about commitment and can probably get anything she wants from u. Do you think so little of ur wife and ur marriage? Once u cross the line there is no going back, remember ur values and morals, and honor them.
2006-08-26 10:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if your not happy in your marriage then get out or get counseling before you cheat. Its not only going to hurt your wife but is it worth your self respect for a few minutes of pleasure . I understand the excitement behind sneaking around the rush it gives you , but do you really think its worth it . Once you make that leap and you cant take it back .
2006-08-26 10:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is - which do you want more? Do you want your wife and marriage, or do you want office sex? You cannot have both. Your wife will find out and leave you.
Sure you are turned on, who wouldn't be? But you took a vow to love only your wife. I predict doom if you follow your anatomy instead of your heart.
2006-08-26 10:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do something like that there's no going back. You'll have to face yourself in the mirror every day. Are you ready for the guilt?
If you're not happy in you marriage, get out. Find closer first.
2006-08-26 10:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by supermom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a turn on ,from a guys view.She might be ,playing a game with you.Try to step up the fantasy world ,with your wife.
2006-08-26 10:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Rather be dead than red... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah dont do it...
lets turn this situation around...
how would you feel......if you found out:
your wife was on the internet...talking to guys...and the guys are telling her how they want to go down on her etc....and she was actually considering on meeting them....just friends w/benefits.
It may seem risque...the thrills of gettting caught....the excitment of being with another women.
But its not worth it...if your wife found out.....the pain you would do to her heart....
you may not be in a happy marriage....but do you not love her enough to put her through all that.
1. get marriage counsling
2. ask for a seperation/divorce
2006-08-26 10:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sugar_Plumzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ruin your marriage for that...you married your wife for a reason, you need to figure out what that was and get that back.
2006-08-26 10:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and rent "Fatal Attraction". This girl is just playing with you, even if she really wants to do it, once you do, she'll hold all the cards and will have the power to f*ck up your life.
2006-08-26 10:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE playing with fire. If you want to stay married and stay at your job then don't do anything. It has a way of coming back and biting you in the (YOU KNOW WHAT)......
2006-08-26 10:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont care about your marrige ,go ahead,go for it. If you can still look at yourself in the mirror afterwards go for it. if you like sluts go for it,if you dont mind that your wife does the same thing go for it! there I didnt tell you not to do it!!
2006-08-26 10:42:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋