We went from having sex two times a day to once a month.
2006-08-26 02:32:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First thing first, are you in talking terms with her, are there any hidden grudges, you know women.
Ask yourself, if there is please solve it through this angle first.
Sexwise, did you realise that all these years, you were sextifying your own self more than her?
Through your words, it seems to me that you have premature ejaculations, when prolonged it truly frustates your partner.
Quantity doesn't count much, its quality that brings orgasm.
If this is your case, I suggest prolonged foreplay to bring her to a certain level before penetrative sex.
Vary your strokes and control the penetration in various teasing ways. Try matching your tempo and stays all the way with her rhythm to her orgasmic climax. (Its a complex tactic to learn and more so to sustain the distance) To make it brief.
Tip: Try thinking of other things to distract your mind if you're too immersed and ready to climax. It helps to delay ejaculation, don't put too much pressure on yourself, take it step by step, master each move by practice it makes perfect.
2006-08-26 03:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by davmanx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is masturbating that much she still has a strong sex drive but for some reason found sex with you was not fulfilling her needs. It sounds like the two of you need to talk and work this one out, try some new stuff in the bedroom ( and out) and maybe she will start to see you as a sexual outlet again and not as a once a month requirement
2006-08-26 09:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound good. Talk to her. It is so important to communicate. I know it won't be easy but ask her why. Ask her what you can do to make it better. Tell her that she is your world and you want to make things right again. Ask her to tell you her fantasies, share some of yours.
My husband and I had a big drop in sex like that a long time ago. We had both just gotten so tired from our stressful lives. We sat down one night and talked for hours with a few beers and got it all out in the open. Now, if it has been a few days, we just go to bed early.
I hope all works out for you and your wife.
2006-08-26 09:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by nightflower24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Mr jj26isbk
Between married PPL there is nothing called: sex life is over
1st let me say that i can feel and i mean it FEEL the sadness in your talking but let me tell you one thing for sure, the hope is there for you, BUT its all about you... Do YOU love HER, is she the only woman who can turn you on, is she the center of you life, is your life with out her means nothing... if YES then go now to her and let her know that, touch her, hold her, let her feel your hot body on top of her.... try to remember what were the things that use to turn her on in the past, maybe a movement you do , or a special way in kissing , I don't know BUT you do know , so don't waste any more time and make it a challenge for you in the next month to make love to her every day
Best of luck my frnd
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2006-08-26 09:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies typically don't masturbate that frequently unless it's better than actual sex. Talk to your wife and find out what she's missing in your sex life. You could ignore the problem and it will never get better, or you can take the initiative and try to fix the problem. Her problem might not even be with your sex life, per say, she could have a problem with you. I know that when I'm angry or upset with my husband, I don't feel like being that intimate with him. Talk to her and ask her what you can do to fix things. Hope everything works out!
2006-08-26 09:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't over... I hope. Do the things to her that she is doing to herself. A woman can do it many times over... we don't loose much with each... happy ending, so to speak. Talk to her about this... I mean, she owes you more regularity!!! I hope this problem ends soon and stuff is back to normal for you. I know you feel miserable. Try to use candles, nice music, soft lights, give her massages and talk talk talk to her about it. Be the leader, women like a take charge man. Best wishes, man!
2006-08-26 09:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its u? Ask her why she wants to masterbate rather than 2 have sex. If she complains about ur manly hood go to www.bigpenisforever.com
2006-08-26 09:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Adonis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she might be liking masterbating with fingers than ur penis.
There can be other reasons like
-u should still satisfy her in the style she needs
-u should stimulate the most sensitive point by which she gets excited.
-i think she likes her vagina to be stimulated as she masterbates so often.
-she might like to try in various positions.
2006-08-26 09:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by PH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to be happy that she's giving pleasure to herself and not seeking it elsewhere. You need to talk to her about your sex life and find out if you have done something to make her unhappy or if she wants you to be more exciting in the bedroom.
2006-08-26 09:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you just aren't pleasing her! Ask her to show you how to touch her correctly and maybe things can get back to normal for you two.
2006-08-26 09:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋