Still havent found wot Im looking for and dont understand where she could be :(
2006-08-26 02:11:21 · 19 answers · asked by darkdknight 2 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
i wish i could answer that for you honey, but i haven't found 'the one' yet either. When I do, i'll let you know where they keep them : ) x
2006-08-26 02:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are limiting yourself. Your method is flawed. You seem to have the misguided notion that there is ONE special person you were intended to meet and fall in love with.
You would have better luck if you allowed yourself to experience many, and accept them for who they are. You may click with some and not others. The truth is, there are many 'ONES" out there that you could find love with and be happy with.
You will meet them, once you lose the notion that is all about YOU. It's not. It is more about meeting someone who inspires you to feel good about yourself, and who motivates you to care about them and take pleasure in making them feel good.
Maybe you are too narcissistic to see beyond your own perspective? If you want someone who thinks just like you do, then volunteer to have your brain cloned.....
2006-08-26 04:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a misconception.
Women find the men and try them out before allowing them to propose. If it doesn't work for them you can become a recycled loner.
Solution.
Look your best and behave naturally and do it 24-7 wherever you are. Remember to put yourself where they are not where the lads hang out.
She will find you and then you will have the chance to choose.
Good luck.
2006-08-26 04:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking that there's any such things as "the one". There isn't.
We all carry a blueprint around in our heads for the perfect person, but the older you get the more unrealistic you realise that it is.
Accept people you meet for who they are, and not for what you think they should be. And be willing to compromise.
Life won't happen if you sit around waiting for it, that's for sure.
2006-08-26 02:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking...chances are she is right under your nose, and you don't even realize it. People try too hard. Just let things happen.
If you are looking for the "perfect" mate, you will die a lonely man. The trick is to find someone who best suits you.
2006-08-26 02:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by PariahMaterial 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you can't find her? You may simply be looking in the wrong place. Anyway, give it time. You've got a whole life (and maybe more) ahead of you.
2006-08-28 00:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by micksmixxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is around one of those corners you haven't gone round yet, she will appear when the time is right for you, just be patient and true love will find you soon.
2006-08-26 02:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me about it mate...................know that feeling well, i think we need to see girls as mates and learn contentedness with being single. they dont like a guy that whinges (as i learnt from yahoo answers) that way when someone special comes along we'll spot them cos theyll stand out from the crowd and theyll see us and appreciate us for who we are, rather than the impression we're trying to make.
2006-08-26 02:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by supersam82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when you meet them, give it time and dont rush into anything
2006-08-26 02:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by finnykid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave up looking.
2006-08-26 02:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by andylefty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋